And it's sad when people I used to admire remind me of them.

Me and my sister were exposed to dangers and my horrible relatives never wanted to acknowledge it because they're assholes. Their favorite thing about themselves is the houses they own and the way they were able to align themselves with an unwell Patriarchal White Supremacist culture and take vacations to Europe, or sometimes other places because that's their way of being culturally sensitive. They probably went over there and acted like ugly Americans. And I don't know what else. I'm glad I didn't bring little children around them. Some people become worse as they get older. That's what I learned.