When I was in elementary school and the girls were complaining that the boys always got better toys and there were better TV commercials for them, maybe that was cute, huh? But there's a bunch of other stuff that's happened since then that's not been cute AT ALL!
Tuesday, November 03, 2026
Auuuugh Patriarchal SICKNESSSSSS
Comment from A: They would never make a man put down his wife's last name
"ladies, has this ever happened..."
CapnCrunchLuvr🦋
Yes, I have.
Have you ever noticed that sometimes people had to marinate in their human experiences and not be successful in their life, and then it was like, after their death, other people sort of started to appreciate who they were and what they were about?
Wow! I don't think I could have thought of this without a few Taco Tuesday tacos in me.
"How to feel like you can be on the same page again one day, even if there's so much opportunity not to be on the same page!"
Omg xoxoxo this is hard.
For some reason, I'm feeling like a part of my personality that's like a little kid in an airport who had to fly alone to various places (although not entirely, because I had my little sister; it's just that I didn't have any adults with us) is going to help me get through a few moments in time.
Terapia de la naturaleza
I got "Empty Shell" in my head.
And a lot of kids were running in the park around nice-enough seeming adults practicing saying Spanish words, so...
I did see some men with a boy outside of a barber shop and I kind of didn't like their vibe. There was rough housing and the boy acted like he didn't like it, and the father said, Hey. Be nice to my friend. Instead of respecting the boy's boundaries. I remembered the era when adults never apologized. Then somebody played some spooky music from inside the barbershop and it distracted the boy and they all talked about that. And then they all went inside. They were not white guys. Probably Latino. Maybe their friend played Halloween music for them from inside of the shop.
But what about the suffering animal, Mary Oliver.
What shall we do with the drunken sailor?
"Wild geese" by Mary J Oliver
https://allpoetry.com/poem/15374223-Wild-geese-by-Mary-J-Oliver
"DRUNKEN SAILOR - Lyrics, Chords, Music" | Sea Shanty Song Lyrics
https://irish-song-lyrics.com/Drunken_Sailor.html
🎶🌊🎶🌊🎶🌊
Instead of type type type.
Even though my mouth hurts and I want to scream, I can tap on the side of my hand and look at the mountains and love and accept myself. Tap tap tap.
I guess you should ask your body what would be kindest?.
I talk to people in real life sometimes about choosing your own healing instead of getting all upset about social justice issues. I don't know it's hard sometimes. It really feels like you're supposed to do both, but sometimes it feels like you're supposed to choose healing instead
Oh my God, now that is just cringey and cheesy.
Apparently, I'm supposed to remember that they're calling this song "other people's property" on the radio.
Naughty by Nature - "O.P.P."
https://youtube.com/watch?v=idx3GSL2KWs&si=zAnm0ENt8WvRyiju
They didn't say "property" when I was younger.
I think Otto Frank seemed like one of the nice rich guys.
I'm so sorry that the Patriarchy decided that his status and his property was not so valuable to them.
My body's kind of like my property, and I need to give it fuel and invest in it.
A lot of patriarchal people seem to have been trained by the Culture to not care about what happens to the children who aren't like, their property, and don't increase their value+ (in the eyes of the "most valued" Patriarchs), but hopefully, with time, as they unlearn a lot of toxic patriarchal patterns...
I think I should go eat something now.
"A lot of women have a huge sunk cost investment in patriarchy."
your_aunt_liz
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DfNA7UejO7N/?xtok=ZnAxNjNqa3ZhNzNy
Some people certainly are more vulnerable than others.
"Voting for so many people today"
🧡✨ Chrystal ✨🧡
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPLH2meXL/
"He didn't need magic"
hulu
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTfoPQgoV/
"they were all men btw"
Mikayla 🌲
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTfoPuyQH/
It's great to find a brother who finally understands.
How easy it is for Patriarchal people to make it more and more dangerous for most daughters to get pregnant and carry and give birth to children.
Who understands that the vast majority of daughters in this land do not happen to have especially wealthy dads. Daughters with wealthy dads are in a minority.
Was this guy by any chance looking at some stuff people on the internet have been saying about Reproductive Rights for Human Beings lately?
"I finally understand"
stevejcline
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTfoB1ADt/
And did he see anything about how almost all the irresponsible "fortunate" people don't want to talk about "those kinds of people." Why don't they want to talk about "those kinds of people?" I don't think that is just something that's unique to Boomers, because some Boomers are better at caring about others.
Perhaps there's been a great vast collective unhealed wound this whole time, and that's why all of this s*** is happening right now. Could it be?
More dangerous to get pregnant. More dangerous to have children. More dangerous to send children to school. More likely to be kidnapped by government paramilitary forces. And the list just seems to go on and on and on. And I don't think submissive adoration of one shiny girl dad is going to really fix it.
Anyways, geez. Have mercy, or something.
Besides you, I mean.
Who exactly do you think feeds all the women that you've decided are the most superior to all the other kinds of women and girls you clearly don't or weren't trained to respect or care to think about very much at all?
Who feeds you?
"On this day"
OurNativeCarolina
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPLHR4hBk/
Just because people's blatantly sexist preferences and choices felt so incredibly bad for your body and spirit and mind yesterday and today...
Tomorrow could be better?
Today could start being better too?
What could make tomorrow better?
What would make today better?
Let's mix it up! Human Beings Studies classes are fun.
Even if they happen to be the kinds of human beings that a Patriarchal Society didn't want you to empathize with or pay any attention to.
"On this day"
OurNativeCarolina
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPLHR4hBk/
"We can't leave."
The Traveling Survivor
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPLH8Qa8E/
"Never in a million years"
Ruby Emerrald
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPLH8aCgC/
"Tanya Zamataykina is FREE"
Ed
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTfoSdFAE/
"I don't even have words"
Grace Murphy 🌷
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPLH89vPt/
"Dually noted Randy"
Tracey B♣️
Voting in America 2026.
Apparently some people are showing up at the polls upset that Trump is not on the ballot.
He must really be like a drug for some people.
He must just cosplay that a force inside of them which felt disempowered and insecure can finally rise and get liberated, and he's there to liberate them.
He's like, I'm going to get what I want no matter what, and he makes believe that he's going to allow other people to get more access to what they want no matter what, too.
I just wonder why so many smart wealthy people got duped just as much as (or possibly even more than) some poorer, more disadvantaged people into believing his fabrications.
Cilantro Lover.
"Got some cilantro to take home."
Obdulia Ag
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPLuwr3wU/
I bet "Hotel" is the more humorous one.
There's lots of old mines out there in the hills.
"Hotel by Arthur Hailey"
https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/124920.Hotel
"King Solomon's Mines by H. Rider Haggard"
https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/23814.King_Solomon_s_Mines
"Hotel" - Tori Amos
Breakfast Bagel with the Beatles 🎶
Today the Beatles were good at reminding me of times when I heard some people's moms might have had a lot of boyfriends or something.
("Run For Your Life" by the Beatles)
Who takes care of kittens? 🐈
There was a bigger cat with two little half grown kittens on the other side of the fence just now. My cat didn't see them.
It was a pleasure to listen to Chick Bongo share his raccoon protocol with us.
Among other things...
"Chuck Bongo's first AI Interview"
u/Fickle_Cat9277
It's okay!
Genesis 19:16-17 (MSG) - "Lot was dragging his feet..."
https://www.bible.com/bible/97/GEN.19.16.MSG
Feet dragging is all part of the process.
Her toast sounds good and crunchy.
"I'll make another video about this."
julesvdickson
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DfCw5cJxCvC/?psln=MWd3ZmV1ODdyeXpoaw==
I must do a skimming reread of Ahab's Wife soon...
"Ahab’s Wife – Much Madness is Divinest Sense"
https://www.danahuff.net/ahabs-wife/
The author included fictional accounts of Hawthorne and Emerson in it. But it's been a few decades since I read that book.
This guy's cat is just chillin'
"Once again, men have centered themselves"
mikeplivefree
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DfR3OPuv5Ed/?cplk=NHdhMTd3amNxaWVv
Actually, I thought of a cool writing exercise...
O Brother!
Thine young daughter seems to have quite the fascination with pleasing a Ghastly Lord of Rape Culture in the very forefront of her consciousness. Have you any bright ideas as to how this could have possibly transpired? I eagerly await your civilized reply.
That's how I feel today. Blame rape culture.
I don't feel like being friends with Patriarchal Women who are constantly fawning over men to put other women and other women's children at a disadvantage.
What if your body likes the bread better?
What if you choose a loaf of bread over a man's need to fawn over your flaca status and pressure you into buying a tighter pair of pants with another a****** man.
Why should feminism and liberation of the more disenfranchised ones and self-care seem so incompatible to patriarchal people?
"Thank you to the 'protectors and providers' for the reminder"
natacha p🪐et
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTfEQMHLG/
"I'm tired of men..."
Paris Paloma
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPLmNFSks/
"Hi!#chingalamigra"
Steph🖤
Curiosity is important. I wonder where they learned their survival strategies.
Because you'd think that asking some people to show more respect or compassion for what others are going through is like asking them to actually put their own lives at risk somehow. Perhaps by hiding persecuted people under the threat of being put in a concentration camp. But that's not what you were asking them, was it?
Why don't they work harder on developing more of their compassion for others and show their work?
"A lot of women have a huge sunk cost investment in patriarchy."
your_aunt_liz
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DfNA7UejO7N/?xtok=ZnAxNjNqa3ZhNzNy
How does this country actually treat women and children right now?
I'm not talking about only focusing on how some "special" women and children get treated with more favoritism by The Patriarchy than the other women and children. That's like some "Zone of Interest" survival B.S.
It's not fair. Jesus weeps.
I don't like how ICE raids have made me feel like a lot of average people feel entitled to act like racist blonde mom babysitter.
Monday, November 02, 2026
I was listening to some Tibetan sound bowls.
It made me feel like the way some of us are right now is going to seem quite silly in the future, and we will laugh at ourselves. And yet, it seems like quite a serious and important topic to make the Earth a less violent place for a lot of people than it is right now. I think when violence touches your life, it's incredibly dysregulating. And it's not just the physical violence, because also there's the post-traumatic stress disorder symptoms, mental, emotional, psychological stuff, and maybe even a lot of psychic stuff.
Maybe more compassion could help people become less dysregulated?
"The billionaires that enable and profit from the ICE deportation machine"
prettyinformedgirls
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DfPc-_7hC6F/?cplk=NXR1eWM5eW5qYzhx
"I'm tired of men"
Paris Paloma
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPLmNFSks/
"Post 55"
Feral Mama Myztyk
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPLmNLJ8R/
"Replying to unsacrificed"
Feral Mama Myztyk
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTfKaNEQF/
"A lot of women have a huge sunk cost investment"
your_aunt_liz
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DfNA7UejO7N/?xtok=ZnAxNjNqa3ZhNzNy
I would be interested in watching this.
"I Died review – moving portrait of Tzotzil women confronting patriarchal violence"
So it seems that people actually have courses they're offering about this phenomenon now.
"Healing from being the older sister."
I'm not sure if the older sister phenomenon is as prevalent in very wealthy families, but I guess it depends on the family. And perhaps it also depends on the sister.
My day went well. Just doing a little scrolling.
"Everyday on this earth"
that. angry. mom
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DfHkdwJRwVJ/?vrfl=MXF4aWF0cG5wazdnZQ==
"He could have easily"
A girl has no president
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DfJ7nG8BKs7/?xtok=MTg1eHNkcnNrbGc2dQ==
"American's Biggest Culture Shock in Germany!😳🇩🇪"
ZacRyanYT
I feel like nature gave me a cool experience today after I mailed in my ballot.
On one side of the road, I saw a hawk, and then a second hawk, and then a third hawk! They were doing acrobatic things in the air and making their hawk cries. And their feathers looked golden and glinting in the Sun. They all perched on top of a telephone pole briefly. And then one flew across the road, over a field towards the mountain, and then the second one flew, as if following the first, and then the third one flew.
This is the field they flew over.
This was some good music I listened to before and after I saw them. Well, the Nirvana song came on the Lithium radio station after the hawks appeared.
What a great time to figure out how wealthy people can do much better things with their money.
"Coincidences!!"
Alyssa
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPLatH6PJ/
"sacred work my loves"
the death house
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTfKF7PdG/
"Objective: KILL THEM WITH KINDNESS"
Andrea Gonzalez
You know, it's like that saving one starfish matters to that starfish story...
I mean, maybe people feel helpless to make a difference and that's why they don't want to talk about what's going on. But there must be somebody somewhere who has some interesting ideas, who could make it so that the brutal and devastating things that are happening to some of the disenfranchised people (including children!) right now don't need to continue happening to some of them.
🧊 in MORENO VALLEY
Yeah, if you're so superior to me and to a teacher crying over her students' parents getting kidnapped by ICE and the parents who got kidnapped and the students...
You could do more with your superiority than you're f****** doing right now. Rich people are the ones who are doing this to poor people.
This is a terrible time for some people who are children right now. So stop being superficial, and start acting like real adults.
Children near me who had to see their own parent or another child's parent get kidnapped by ICE right in front of them at their school are going to grow up and remember what this was like. Children who had to stop going to school or extracurricular fun activities or the library are going to remember that some people were just superficial and heartless and did not care about what happens to them. Who or what gives you so much conviction that it's fine to be so superficial and so heartless?
A teacher is crying because of ICE kidnapping students' parents in her school district.
This is near me. Close. Very close.
"🧊 in MORENO VALLEY"
Unapologetically Erin
Sometimes I miss living on an island.
I just imagined if I lived on the island again and if someone went missing there would be enough of a feeling that the community on the island would be shocked about it. I mean, people are making Facebook posts and saying they hope the girl gets found though.
Sigh.
Sunday, November 01, 2026
Helicopter is flying over this area. Looking for a missing girl right now.
A teenage girl is missing in this area right now.
Pssst! You guys.
I'm afraid that people I genuinely cared about and liked could be persecuted by ICE, like the kind of people who made my day and made me feel like a good tutor. Why should I be happy if they're being persecuted by ICE?
It's too bad. You guys should have met them.
Equally, I feel like some low income students who didn't feel very loved by their parents and who were encouraged to just go out and make money asap might have joined ICE. I tried to encourage them to follow their own dreams and believe in talents, but there's only so much you can do. Their parents wanted them to work, not surpass them in educational achievements.
It's too bad; you guys should have met them, too.
I don't wanna be like whitey on the moon and can't forget it.
Gil Scott-Heron – "Whitey on the Moon"
https://genius.com/Gil-scott-heron-whitey-on-the-moon-annotated
This has musical potential.
Oooo, why does a girl have to be such a fighter in a man's world? Oooo...
Good inner child acknowledgment.
I think it would be fun to go back to a place where childhood memories were made and be like, Hey, this is where I had some childhood memories made, and show the places, and then I could go to another person's places and be like, oh and this is where your childhood memories were made.
Like a gift to yourself that keeps on giving.
It's so cool that some people are going to feel more inspired to stand up for the disenfranchised by the end of this life, or in the next one!
After thinking about how a bunch of men in my generation were trained to empathize with the Cornell 50 instead of survivors
It's nice to chill out with a little episode of "East of Eden."
Gotta go re-watch "East of Eden" now! 💅🏻
"PLEASE SHARE FOR AWARENESS"
feral_goddess
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DfNwq7RBujS/?exln=Njl5dzByNmNqcjBw
Really, it does make me feel optimistic, however.
That many descendants of Nazis did not follow in their ancestors' footsteps! They chose a different path.
"American’s First Time Working In Germany!😂🇩🇪🇺"
ZacRyanYT
Wouldn't it be nicer if they were more excited about how it could help oppressed peoples?
People seem super excited about how AI can make them feel like they have a lot of servants at their beck and call. They seem to want to feel like kings who have conquered. That's a lot of colonizer mentality and rape culture and patriarchal programming to undo. But it could be undone quite quickly if some people were more enthusiastic about it. If they hadn't had the empathy drummed out of them and been rewarded for going along with the patriarchal programming multiple times throughout this life, things could be really different.
Also very sad about Trump voters not caring about Reproductive Rights, which are getting less and less accessible for the middle and lower classes
"The false incompetence is dominance under a guise."
Paris Paloma - "LABOUR (the cacophony)"
If you were doing a better job at something else, I wouldn't need to be doing this.
Therefore, I don't care if you like it or not. If I bring up controversial topics that need to be addressed and are not going away just because some pampered people feel like sticking their heads in the sand and acting like it's not a problem when it is. That's a kind of calling; as in, I hear the people who have been tormented calling for help, and you don't, and I still hear it.
Boy, wouldn't that be an honest take on the part of some of the Epstein class? Good for their souls.
"Long live the fairy dancing"
parispalomahq
https://www.instagram.com/reel/De91XcYo2of/?cplk=MXByc2x2cG0zcHoybg==
"What other people's daughters have experienced has enriched my life immeasurably."
Grow up, pampered man babies of patriarchal empires!
"You cannot have prey..."
missgingerlocks
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DdxodS7AuNZ/?cplk=MXFoa2JkeTF4azRxbQ==
Don't make all the older sisters have to do all the work to help half of the population just because you're the most favored by a lot of really shady, ignorant, and even sometimes evil people. You can evolve beyond that now. You have so much potential to do better.
And another thing I have to complain about.
I don't understand why rich people aren't more upset about the Epstein files. They have daughters. What's so superior about their daughters compared to everybody else's daughters?
"Well, my daughter carries a fine family last name and has so much money that my Epstein friends would never dare rape her. My daughter is the property of a Rich Daddy. That's the lot that other men's daughters have to deal with."
The rich honestly make me sick sometimes.
After watching a video about how people with weight gain issues tend to have backgrounds of trauma...
What if being obsessed with making money starts looking more like what people treat being overweight like right now? Like a symptom of being traumatized and an undesirable thing that you don't want to have associated with you anymore? Think about it. In the past, people with more weight on them were seen as more desirable because it was harder to attain. Now it's easier to attain. And the richest tend to be the thinnest.
Sometimes they also seem to be less compassionate because a lot of them voted for the fascist Donald Trump, who's made all the concentration camps and kidnappings and separation of families so prevalent and terrible. For certain people in the population more than others, clearly.
Also, it would be nice to see some more of the people who have higher incomes get super enthused about putting their wealth into things that are helpful for humanity, and that's why I like MacKenzie Scott.
Resonates...
I've read spiritual books before in which the author (or the energy that's coming through the author) says something to the effect of, if this doesn't resonate with you, then you don't need to follow it because there might be something else out there that's better for you right now. At the moment, as I reflect on that, I know I don't always remember it, but I do believe that it's quite true.
I suppose asking some young - at - heart dads to deal with the real world is like asking a scared teenager to play with a Ouija board.
I myself have never touched a Ouija board. Maybe I'll pick one up sometime in the future. Sunny day!
Good luck, teenagers!
Actually, I think it was like eight or nine girls and one boy moving around to the waltz music. None of them were blonde.
The music of the dance team has reminded me that this is another fine book to read.
"As the Waltz Was Ending by Emma Macalik Butterworth" | Goodreads
https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/394716.As_the_Waltz_Was_Ending
And that is truly pathetic.
Imagine being frightened that someone like Anne Frank is going to oust you from your special, privileged position in this Patriarchal Society.
I feel the need to go to the women's fiction section and explore it by myself today.
It's a really big section. Very popular, women's fiction is. Women need lots of fiction to survive your bro-tastic society.
The brotherhood of man is very important.
I feel like the 50 other frat brothers could really use some extra support and guidance right now.
Why don't you read this and cheer yourself up, kid.
"Ballot Recommendations - League of Women Voters of California"
Back when we were still talking a lot more...
My aunts gave me an idea for a topic that needs further exploration:
"Dads Who Disappoint."
That was a good one. Maybe we'll still talk about it before we die.
Here's another:
"Duped Brothers Who Disappoint."
I have an idea for some new meditation apps.
What it looks like to me is, it looks like some girls' dads are going to start feeling guilty because they've been fine with how things have been this whole time, and it's actually been really violent and crappy for a lot of girls and women. Any insights as to how to help the most fortunate ones make an honorable transition? Worthy of a grandpa that all of the descendants are going to really admire?
I can hear some classical music playing very loudly outside.
I never heard that before in this apartment complex.
I looked outside and some girls are doing a dance formation by one of the apartments. It is like a team is practicing dance moves to a waltz, and they're still dancing individually, but as a team.
It's kind of magical!
Why am I getting so good at finding people who really do expect things to get so much better for girls and women in this society?
What do you think we are actually here for?
Bros! Wake up! You are the ones who are being exhausting.
"Michael Douglas on how anger is ultimately exhausting"
@teamcoco
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DfGVTPbidc7/?mdxt=b24wNTd0bG1iNWg=
Do you think my role on this planet is to let some rich guys continue to perpetuate a culture which is incredibly damaging to the vast majority of girls and women?
And just because they benefited from it more or put a few women in nicer houses, that does not make it all right. Have you ever heard of trying to put yourself in someone else's shoes? When did you stop doing that? How old were you when you stopped doing that?
It's so far beyond all right, and if they are too immature to want to address it, that's not my problem. What do you think I am here for?
"When Michael Douglas met Catherine Zeta-Jones"
@teamcoco
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DfIhnJ8SEvE/?mdxt=MTdyeXBland3cTJzZQ==
Expand your vision! Embrace a wider swath of humanity!
I need a frozen drink of some kind now.
"Shelby has lived with this for 25 years"
jenifermarksthespot
shelbybart
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DeVF31Py-rj/?mdxt=MWpvODI1ZDEzNmRqdg==
"It lacks the reward they want"
nataliekendel
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DfGrC-5ICaR/?cplk=eGI4ZW1lODluczI=
"You cannot have prey..."
missgingerlocks
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DdxodS7AuNZ/?cplk=MXFoa2JkeTF4azRxbQ==
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