Monday, July 13, 2026

Boy momz in this life, take note.


 

"Male anatomy that surprises"

doctorfayez

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DYFx71dj5i7/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Well, I did it in a past life.

"A day in the life of a lady who menstruates and was made pregnant by a man and did not have a miscarriage."

So, besides changing PCOS to PMOS this year...

Companies are getting interested in monetizing menstrual blood now?

"that one must have gotten lost on the way..."

tealadykatie 

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Dac0Hc0hZjE/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Problematic stepfather stuff? Hmmm.

"She sat down for the interview with The New York Times Magazine after being chosen as one of the 30 Greatest Living American Songwriters.

“I’m a massive sombr fan, of his songwriting. And his lyrics are so intensely confessional. ‘I don’t want another man’s child to have the eyes of the girl I can’t forget.’ Are you kidding me?” Taylor said.

She continued, 'Having a male artist say stuff like that is really good for the cause of women to be able to say stuff. If there’s any way we can make confessional songwriting a little bit more of something that isn’t, like, people take that as like you were being messy. You have to be fair to everyone then.'

It sounds like Taylor is saying that when male artists are open and personal in their music, it helps normalize confessional songwriting and highlights the need for women to be judged by the same standards rather than criticized as 'messy.'”

~ Kim Brown 

"Taylor Swift Praises Sombr & His 'Confessional' Lyrics, Says They Help Break Double Standard for Female Songwriters - Just Jared - Celebrity News and Gossip" | Entertainment

https://www.justjared.com/2026/04/28/taylor-swift-praises-sombr-his-confessional-lyrics-says-they-help-break-double-standard-for-female-songwriters/

Now, just because patriarchy's favorite kind of mother is a person who got pregnant by a man and didn't have a miscarriage or an abortion today...

Doesn't necessarily mean that's always going to be the way it is when the grandchildren are older.

And weirdly, this video also kind of reminded me about bias in teaching surveys.

"Bias in student opinion of teaching surveys"

https://www.reddit.com/r/Professors/s/lbDb1Skbeg


"At least I didn't overreact"

gauriibhatiaa

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Daoe1oIprbE/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

When I watched the content creator rant about taking the knee pads off, I remembered taking a sensual dance workshop. I thought it was going to help you feel like you could get more in touch with your body, maybe kind of like a belly dance class, but that was not what it was like. 

For a lot of it, we were crawling on our knees, and we also had knee pads on, which was good because one of my knees was not super happy about contact with hard floors. I felt ridiculous during quite a bit of it, and not sensual at all but it also was an interesting experience. It was kind of fun in a way, like you could imagine yourself as a more low-bellied creature crawling on the Earth. 

Also, the music didn't really make me feel terribly sensual. It just made me feel kind of ridiculous, and a lot of it was from a male point of view, but different people have different musical tastes.

And then I looked up and I saw how something about the way the fans affected the vents made it look like there were swastikas on the ceiling! And once I saw it, I couldn't stop noticing it for all the rest of the workshop! 

But then again the original swastikas used to have a different meaning before the Nazis used them, right? This is such a weird time! 

At the end of the class, the instructor seemed a little bit embarrassed. Because she wasn't sure how it would go because it was her first time teaching in a group class setting.

All of the moms, or should I say, people who got made pregnant by men at some point and did not have a miscarriage, and perhaps some of the other kinds of people in female bodies, were telling her how she did a great job and it was wonderful experience. And I thought, I think it was interesting and I feel stressed out, but I would like to take a belly dance class again in the future, though. 

What can be done? You want to support the instructor because she's trying a new thing. What if the instructor gave out surveys afterwards? That might elicit some useful information. However, there can also be problems with biases, which is what happens sometimes when people give out those surveys...

I can't wait for all the Patriarchal People to love me more when I get pregnant! Whoops! That's not actually not going to happen!

 Tori Amos - "Precious Things" - PBS Soundstage 

https://youtube.com/watch?v=6kr4fa5Fb64&si=dNl5I-SGr2joPPht

So, I'm going to go fix myself something to eat.

 👩🏼‍🎨🎶🍰🙀


"At least I didn't overreact"

gauriibhatiaa

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Daoe1oIprbE/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

It's time to consume some food.

 


"Better put my book down"

tealhousefarm

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DT-f-izglPr/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"They're not for the weak ok"

sophie.koreto

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DaikD0-Mw1v/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"#viralvideos #mitchbrothers"

mitchbrothers_

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DavbVHLgNsF/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Education is so important!

 

"Study: Overlooked sexual segregation of habitats..."

howies_everythingclub

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DakkLopx0HS/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

I like to wonder what the future will think of what we're doing sometimes.

 🍞🔥🥛


"Introducing the saddest beverage ever"

pdylanhollis and the_plant_slant

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DR2rU-2kZdc/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

💖 So expressive! 💖

 And sharing, too!


"Artsy"

scarletdelemeny

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DXr15o4EuzE/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"Mary Anning (1799 - 1847)"

veenajetti

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DXuQ3WHibc2/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"An hour after I recorded this"

prentishemphill

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DXb7-t8E_8U/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

You have to get through things because who knows how long you're going to be in this body.

Kind of feels like "It's too bad more guys can't be like Lloyd" is a little bit tinged with sarcasm now.

"Joe Lies" from Say Anything

amanfubrusko

https://youtube.com/watch?v=ijYs_zU24-Y&si=rNf8XUGkuqcidUXX

And dessert too, ha-ha. 🌞🏜️🍰

Behold the bravery: a trip to the desert in August!

"i love me some desert"

bdylanhollis

https://www.instagram.com/p/DNOej2NO-Q5/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Bring back clothes lines.

Bring back beating the dust out of carpets with the dusty carpet beaters.

So sensitive.

"As an act of love, here are the times when I've been a real a******."

Here comes the Sun.

 


Feminism raises the bar!

"You won't believe what they do to women under anesthesia in US hospitals"

Parkrose Permaculture 

https://youtube.com/watch?v=EhzHk39F_tA&si=zGyQnDRcHA9c9e4H

Spiritual vibes! 😻

When we were little kids my sister and I found a cat in the snow up in that Northern Place and my uncle ended up taking care of it for the rest of its life and it lived well and had a snazzy name. And the cat was happy and said we did a good thing and saved its life. So apparently this spiritual cat has high hopes for us.

Maybe I love this song! It's the one for me, lately!

The Kinks - "Sunny Afternoon (Official Video)"

https://youtube.com/watch?v=0neKYZYj6HA&si=MtejDfInCyIndmR0

Living in these things can be uncomfortable!

It's good that people can have opportunities to feel better and stretch their bodies and stuff. Cough. Hydrate. All kinds of things. So pretty. So many pretty poems and songs to enjoy!

But of course, we are imperfect human beings making our way in the world.

"1If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3 If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing. 4Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant 5 or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; 6 it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. 7Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 8Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away. 9For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away. 11When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways. 12For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known. 13 So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love."

—1 Corinthians 13

"Why Is Love Called the Greatest of These? (1 Corinthians 13)" | Crossway

https://www.crossway.org/articles/why-is-love-called-the-greatest-of-these-1-corinthians-13/?

You know, different kinds of people have some very different ideas of what love and fun means to them, don't they?

So, I have a spiritual mom friend who is interested in what's going on with me, and she gives me books and jewelry and gemstones just spontaneously, because she just feels like it.

There are better ways to be. This is something I don't know how to forget.

It's the Patriarchy who taught you how to abandon people who are different from you, so maybe you should start considering some better alternatives.

There's something about being spiritual with some people.

My spiritual friend who is a mom who has one grown son and who lost her daughter as a baby (so sad) is really nice to me, and she never makes me feel bad about the issues I have had. She's just not wired that way. She doesn't seem to want to make herself feel better by putting down or discounting somebody who has had an experience that's different from hers. It's amazing how many people are wired to do that, though. I just don't understand why, sometimes. It seems like it's something they must have learned from a very unspiritual society, that it's a quick way to make themselves feel more special, or something like that. I don't know. It has shocked me on many occasions as I've gotten older, though.


I do think some people are like this.

Do you think some people are afraid of becoming more sensitive to what others are experiencing?

Human beings have free will.

I guess you just have to decide to believe what you want to believe; that's your choice.


Isn't this amazing to know? Well, it is if you're me.

Message from my friend who was a mom who died of cancer: She said that I was kind to her in her life and that I helped her a lot and she wanted to help me, and then I shouldn't feel bad that I didn't call her in the last years of her life. She said I didn't need to be there and she didn't want me to see her that way. That I should remember her when she was better, and I said yes, it's true. The last time I saw her it really upbeat and we were really nice to each other. The universe has a sensitive side.

I almost love a pothole. Scabs.

Potholes that make you fall down in a strange parking lot at night, fearing your twisted ankle won't let you get up, and the world will show you that it's not filled with good people. Potholes that later get filled in so well, you would almost think to yourself that maybe the pothole never was actually there to begin with, but for the scabs on the scraped knees that stuck around for days and days afterwards...

Sunday, July 12, 2026

Sigh. I feel disbelief. Oh well. Back to my puzzle.

"The art world has a rule..."

shotsfiredphotostyling

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DatqLNDgc0l/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"We raise our daughters..."

realloveready

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DXXDC-glQCk/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"Dysfunctional systems..."

jeremy.r.ostler

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DadKpENOanH/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

The DVD player broke, so I can't watch my movie.

I will work on the neglected puzzle instead. I saw something online and it was very fawning and  then I lost it but anyways...I might not be taking the same drugs other people are taking.

Isn't this fun? I like it. I think it's fun!

"One thing I've noticed"

wanwanluv

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DaoH78fsWC1/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

What's in the works, being created, etc? 🫟🖌️🖼️🧑🏻‍🎨

I think it's worthwhile to consider that people who have had different life experiences can learn a lot from each other.  Like, I almost I can't believe people who go on stages and communicate with big audiences all the time really do that. But sometimes I can feel something in my body that almost knows what that feels like. However, I haven't done anything like that in this life, or hardly ever. I think it would be interesting if some could get more articulate about what they learned from those experiences. And is there anything in particular you do before you perform or do you just change from day to day? Do you go to a place and kind of download a vibe and then you change what you do based on the vibe and have an experience that is very "live in the moment?" 

I feel like I was supposed to learn about balancing discovery with listening more to myself and setting boundaries. I can learn how to bring something new into the world, but also, how to shed light on places that have been neglected. So that certain types of abuses that have happened can no longer continue. Some have encountered very dark and abusive situations, simply because people were convinced that being ignorant of what's going on with other human beings is a normal way to survive a certain kind of society. Maybe some people sought solace in conformity because they didn't know had to otherwise handle what happened to them.

And now it is Sunday evening!

 


The snake at the winery. 

A guy and a girl were behind a tree near me and she got scared by a gopher snake. He told her it was harmless. She said I'm not about it. He said do you want me to take away from you and she said I don't know. Be careful. She didn't know if she thought he should touch the snake. Then he went and he picked up the snake and put it elsewhere. It was very long and dangling dramatically from his hand. I kind of smirked to myself and thought now he can be the hero. He's probably feeling pretty happy right now that he gets to pick up that snake and carry it away.

She said be careful. Don't let it bite. I snapped a picture and then another woman came over and asked if he was my husband and I said no and she said he picked up a snake didn't he? I said yes but I don't know him. And then the girl said well I guess he's my hero. And then some other people started coming up too and said hey. Did you pick up that snake? What kind of a snake was it???



This one's pretty amusing.

 

Inspired by "The Hollow Pie" in Uncle Arthur's Bedtime stories, found in Michigan.

Who thinks of things like this?

 

"Never trust a fart"

u/downtune79

https://www.reddit.com/r/LoveTrash/s/b0Dsz4KYSR

What's going on here? The drink looks tasty.

 


Gosh, I quite like this feathery lavender effect.

 


Thinking this could be a classic!

"Last Reel. I've been blown away..."

anoushkalucasmusic

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DXw4VLDtVr3/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Oh, the shadow work journaling that must be done.

Emotionally immature parents have real "F*** boy who was trained to f*** over girls and women for the pleasure of the pretty terrible and terrifyingly unwell patriarchy" energy.

Just deleted photos and pet my cat! Cuteness...

Just deleted 50 plus photos from an acupressure points fertility or infertility or whatever book that I took out from a library in 2019. I own that book now anyways.

LOL!


PCOS will get a new name in less than a decade!


CUTENESS


 FeLt 
A cUtE 
lY

I must journal!

Sometimes I feel like emotionally immature Facebook parents have real f*** boy energy.

This is a cool reel, too! 🎭🍿🎞️

🤣🤣🤣 My cat just jumped up on the bed and started purring. 😹😹😹

"a reminder..."

rebeccastewart.co

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DZ57sxktWTx/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

I'm hot.

 


"Last Reel."

anoushkalucasmusic

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DXw4VLDtVr3/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"ur boots are so cute"

aaronheyaaron

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DalW19cBdh_/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"🚩Kind of pretty"

themomentswestand

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DaGjXFyBaRl/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Playing around with "Think about how I feel!" mentality.

 


"I can't even joke about..."

devandaily

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Daf_9UZPaXi/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"unmatched peace"

madeleinelho

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Daqi9pZSM9E/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"Grow Up"

eric_bill_is_present

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DYPUWu3ukcZ/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

I'm sure they did, and I will find out how.

"La Bamba lied to you"

elmeromerotv

https://youtu.be/c3DWfI6bZqA?si=oMyvUNO2zfAaIgBh

Vibes matter! 🦔💖🌞

"Everyone needs a dream."

littlemaddles

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DZuK61bMjna/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

For humankind, sisterhood...🎶 Happy nation!

"These words and phrases..."

dr. bise

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DanW2SBuuxO/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"Listen, some days I can..."

your_sweary_therapist

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DaqCIgjtYhl/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"have the day you wish for others"

cogey

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DVZUwAXEhLk/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

We have a ways to go...and also, it reminded me...

My curiosity was piqued about a new venue recently. It looks like they have some open mic stuff.

So, there's a guy telling rape jokes, a dad who's unhappy about being a dad, and a woman who wants to get away from everybody???

wlvsdenkava909

https://www.instagram.com/p/DaKNRROFDNn/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

And also, it reminded me of other environments...

Investigating Lawsuits Against Mt. SAC – SACMedia
https://sac.media/2022/07/27/investigating-lawsuits-against-mt-sac/

"They called me the villain"

tammywallace_3355

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DaTxAygOS4V/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==


Our Lady Who Art In Heaven Speaks 🗣️💒

 🙏🏼😇🌁


"The words we choose reveal the biases"

ojiirot

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Daqjrd6udsC/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"The female loneliness epidemic would be over"

rusticrootsandnaturewonders

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DapYIrZofvj/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"And the prize for praising him is..."

clubtelestial

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DarRvCYQIee/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Happy Sunday! 💚🎶🌎

 "Happy Nation"

@officialaceofbase

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C2XU5FLNcq_/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

He's the Big Paleta.

"An artist's 'I.C.E. pop' exhibition was shut down within days at a Texas university" : NPR

https://www.npr.org/2026/07/12/nx-s1-5783832/ice-pop-texas-victor-marka27-quinonez-artist


This is one of the songs that makes me feel better at the moment.

The Kinks - "Sunny Afternoon (Official Video)"

https://youtube.com/watch?v=0neKYZYj6HA&si=t3GdkEdFuhsjIt0b

That wasn't what I expected.

I woke up feeling kind of sick and I was thinking I just can't deal with these f****** people. It doesn't matter. I just can't deal with them right now, and then I got this weird kind of guidance and it told me that the reason why Otto Frank had to deal with a bunch of lawsuits in his life was because it helped him work through any impulses he had for more payback or revenge because of all the wrong that had been done to him.

Maybe even an array of hedgehogs.

 "Hedgehogs are very rarely seen in a group; they are solitary creatures. However, they do have a collective noun, just in case. A group is called an ‘array’ of hedgehogs"

Nature | "Surprising Things About Hedgehogs" 

https://www.thesimplethings.com/blog/hedgehog-myths

I feel like I've never seen one of these in real life. I'll put it out there. I should see a hedgehog in real life.

"Knows Your Scent #hedgehog #animals"

@Snugbarn

https://youtube.com/shorts/XhFa62pHgoA?si=qzuKu7-C3XK60Pv0

Or matcha?

Macho macho woman. She had to succeed. She's a macho woman!

Saturday, July 11, 2026

It'll probably come back, of course, but it's fun to let it go sometimes!

I let go my ego I let go my ego I let go my ego I let go my ego 🤭✨💓😇

Gophers. Lizards. Insects. Birds.


In the summertime...🎶

O holy sky...

 🌬️🌬️🌬️


In the summertime 🎶


"A new test for endometriosis?!"

linsayladybody

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Daqn7URPXuV/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"I really don't understand this"

tompapa

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DalDG6uSEsD/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"Who is this queen"

yourdailydoseofselflove

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DaqEWFlB6NC/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

The universe can be cheeky.

There's cheeky radio DJs. There's cheeky people leaving free things on curbs. But sometimes the universe puts a car in front of you, and it says something funny on the license plate or bumper sticker, and you're like, that there's very cheeky, of the universe to do that.

Scary but nice?

 The Kinks - "Sunny Afternoon {LYRICS}"

https://youtube.com/watch?v=WuqBM7YaSew&si=UOGoNbMcp7L2odjQ

Kind of feels that way, lately!

Does the heavenly father have a sense of humor?

I'm decorating a serving of it!

 🎶A Horse With No Name ~ America🎶

Oh I should add some inositol, too, maybe?

America - "A Horse With No Name (Official Audio)"

https://youtube.com/watch?v=na47wMFfQCo&si=9XyGXiyjOwcvWpu0

My pilgrimage for delicious farmers market yogurt was a success!

I really like this picture.


There were protesters on the way there.


 I stood in a *significant spot and took some pictures as the staff at the restaurant across the street played Rage Against the Machine's "Bulls on Parade" and "Killing in The Name Of." 

Delicious yogurt!

I believe it was a good pilgrimage.


When I got my parking spot, Sinead O'Connor's "Emperor's New Clothes" was on the radio.

The spot where I took some pictures was *significant to me because it was where I met a good person and received helpful guidance yesterday.

I have to prepare breakfast.

"My Uncle Donald Trump Told Me Disabled Americans Like My Son 'Should Just Die'"

https://time.com/7002003/donald-trump-disabled-americans-all-in-the-family/

"The Menopause Conversation Still Has One Major Blind Spot"

https://time.com/article/2026/07/09/the-menopause-conversation-still-has-one-major-blind-spot/

"Making French house music..."

https://substack.com/@blindboyboatclub1/note/c-286742307?r=1oj2u

Good grief. Well, I guess people are doing their best.

"US Government Plans Dedicated Airline for Deportation"

https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2026-07-10/dhs-wants-to-create-its-own-round-the-clock-deportation-airline

"Trump administration rolls back a key protection for imperiled wildlife"

https://www.npr.org/2026/07/11/nx-s1-5890025/trump-administration-imperiled-wildlife

"Fiona gave me this video to share"

zeldahallman

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DansYv7uwG3/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==


Ah, I'll look up the proportions of white around a Polaroid photo later.

And it's later now. 

"Instant Film Dimensions: Polaroid, Instax, One Instant"

https://www.analog.cafe/r/instant-film-dimensions-4iuj

What's going on out there???

 🌞💧🌈⛅🌤️☀️




Morning!


Great clouds!