Thursday, May 28, 2026

But I guess it's a cupcake eater's world.

 🧁💘🤲🪉🙏🏆


"Seth meets his future self s1e8"

https://www.reddit.com/r/sethmeyers/s/CGMLeHendn

Of course, jokes are all in good fun and everything, but seriously.

Like, the whole phenomenon  of jailing pregnant people (in biologically female bodies) for miscarriages, but still not jailing any rich men for the Epstein files crap is really... DISTURBING.

In spite of everything...

I'm very proud of our progress.

"support small business 🙏"

isaamedinaa

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DWMrqBQxw2a/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

I'm really proud of our progress, and I'm sorry if I haven't said that enough.k

"keeping an eye on the boys"

isaamedinaa

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DXU3qKERn47/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Rent a white dad; or, rent a white - looking dad, to help you navigate our End Days of Patriarchal Mayhem.

 But if they're rich, sometimes they'll donate their time.


It's potentially a new career path for the white - looking Latino boys too.

"Incognito tino"

aguicomedy

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DYfDCSIo2Az/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

I thought pineapples were supposed to be a hein or sign of hospitality, but I guess their history is more complicated than that.

"Who lives in a pineapple under the sea?"

tetyanawrites 

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DY4fcfzhLw5/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

I suppose sometimes people do change for the better.

I wonder if the blonde mom babysitter who seemed to not like certain types of children more than others is a grandma now?

Hashtag Celeb News? Gee...

 Who's making this happen?


"VIRAL: 10-Year-Old Girl's FIERY CLASH With Trump's Masked ICE Agents"

ETimes


Why do the bad people gotta be so racist?

 

"ICE Protest ERUPTS: Detainee’s Wife Claims 'They Kidnapped My Husband'"

Financial Express 

https://youtube.com/watch?v=Ld608e0v4eE&si=EDWPaTZwHhkiX-4-

Dads, we have to keep our spirits up.

"ICE detainees are dying by suicide at an 'alarming' rate, an AP investigation finds" | abc7.com

https://abc7.com/post/ice-detainees-are-dying-suicide-alarming-rate-ap-investigation-finds/19180479/

Did this song age well? 🎶 Eeeeeh...

"Charles in Charge Season 1 Opening and Closing Credits"

https://youtube.com/watch?v=WvoTRhtGeWo&si=xdt3hWbCcQAT5xSO

You know what I remember the dad on this TV show whining about...

"Eight Is Enough" - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eight_Is_Enough

Okay, so back then, apparently he was able to support his gargantuan family on a newspaper columnist's salary, which I have no idea how that could ever happen today, and I have no memory of him wanting to fling himself over a cliff because he couldn't afford to feed all those mouths, but when his birthday rolled around, he was moaning and groaning about he was "half a century old" on his birthday. It was a real source of pain for him to feel like he was getting old, and that's how he put it. Anyways, that's my main memory of that show. I haven't checked it. I haven't gone back to try to find the episode or anything. It was not my favorite show. It was just something that was on our little black and white TV set. After our year of not having a TV. But I'm glad we did get a TV, because we watched "Amadeus" on it.

Possibly.

It seems like the Hands-On Empirical Style of Learning is coming back into fashion.

What does this say?

"Massachusetts to issue statewide ICE guidance for schools, hospitals, churches"

https://www.wcvb.com/article/massachusetts-to-issue-statewide-ice-guidance-for-schools-hospitals-churches/71430578

You don't like it? Go back in time and talk to the blonde babysitters.

God works in mysterious ways!

The blonde teenage not-a-mom babysitter was awesome. The blonde married land-owning mom babysitter was unwell and in denial about how racist she was acting in front of little kids. She was either in denial, or else she didn't care.

Just like a white-winged Dad...

Sing the song. Sounds like he's singing. Feminine side love money!

Oooo, White Dads!

Oooo, Oooo, Oooo! 🎶

"Stevie Nicks 'Edge of Seventeen' (Original Video 1981)"

https://www.reddit.com/r/80smusic/s/QQyay4xAaF

"A Model Childhood" because of "Mothers in the Fatherland."

"A Model Childhood" because of "Mothers in the Fatherland."

What is past is not dead; it is not even past. We cut ourselves off from it; we preferred to be strangers."

~ Christa Wolf, Model Childhood

⚜️⚜️⚜️⚜️⚜️⚜️

"Mothers in the fatherland : Claudia Koonz"

https://archive.org/details/mothersinfatherl00koon

"A model childhood : Christa Wolf : Free Download, Borrow, and Streaming : Internet Archive"

https://archive.org/details/modelchildhood0000chri

I think adoption could start to look more appealing when parents get less shallow, sexist, and racist.

Or maybe I just need to pick different kinds of people to look at and know about. Smarter ones, who don't have to be so shallow in order to fit in. Being shallow isn't that smart or kind; it's just a fierce Patriarchal survival strategy / coping mechanism. 

This one got a plot of land.

Tori Amos - "Siren (with improv) - Berlin 2017"

https://youtube.com/watch?v=W7QW_pAESbY&si=DMzn2HRjF_9BemiP

The song exists in another compartment.

Skating Polly - "Little Girl Blue and The Battle Envy"

https://youtube.com/watch?v=0B4Nn9_9YHg&si=LXpsRxy0JWEgU8fW

Harsh words here.

"'They are suicidal' is the new 'they just became pregnant.'"

jenbrooks247

"'They are suicidal' is the new 'they just became pregnant.'"

jenbrooks247

https://www.threads.com/@jensbooks247/post/DY2PNeWEW__?xmt=AQG0OSZPK9j48kxJAJJlVLJwQ9L8fmgDElcZZuq30tIJShOJZA5r1I6VDhf5uM7YGFtsr2jC&slof=1


Horrors have happened.

How to recover from the sad phenomenon of so many shallow Facebook posts that clearly didn't give a s*** about the existence of someone like you.

It's not so easy to be in this situation.

Anyways, I kind of envy the ones who seem to fit in a lot better with the Patriarchal structures, and at times I kind of feel more kinship with a homeless woman, but I guess I'm luckier than that (not homeless) this time around. 

Wednesday, May 27, 2026

I kind of want to go find a Christine de Pizan book now.

People were also supposed to have a Cosmic Mother element in their spirituality. Not just The Lord.

Human health will continue to be a concern in the foreseeable future.

 

"Will probably get shadow banned for this ... "

salmaelwardany

https://www.instagram.com/p/DY1-IPhDScj/?img_index=7&igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"Only pretty bodies allowed: how the algorithm became the ultimate mean girl"

https://open.substack.com/pub/sundaycervix/p/only-pretty-bodies-allowed-how-the?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=1oj2u

Onward, Brave Soldiers of LOVE and CHARITY!

The piece that paths all, or the pace that passes us all, or the peace that passeth all understanding, is Shirley, or surely, on the horizon, way over yonder, that's where I'm bound.


"for my sister I would"

hayleygracepoetry

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DR3RsDGjOqy/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"Arrested for your miscarriage?!"

pottymouthpollyanna

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DWRMDj9jbqy/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"The white elites are playing in your face"

charleeremitz

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DY0C2Qsxw8k/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"#girldad"

aguicomedy

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DXuHOsZiM4Z/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Maybe different kinds of lives have set different kinds of people up to see the world very differently.

Life set me up in a certain way. The traditional nuclear family is not optimal for all families. That's one way it set me up to see some things. Another way it set me up is to see the discrimination that was occuring with certain kinds of people, towards some children more than others. I don't see how it benefits the health of myself or society to ignore the multitude of messages I have gotten about how painfully this is affecting humanity, because these forms of discrimination should not feel okay. And as for the very childish people who are determined to be in denial about that, I'm really not into dealing with their nonsense right now. Really, at a time when people are getting kidnapped and locked away in detention centers and a child is spending her 10th birthday outside of one of them, advocating for her father, because some adults seemingly can't do any better than that? Really. I don't know. I'm just constantly surprised. I am somewhat astonished that I'm still surprised. Why am I surprised anymore? At this point, I should stop being surprised. Why do I keep being surprised?

Maybe it's time to delve into mystical, nature healing kinds of things!

"True healing isn't when the pain stops. It's when the patterns do."

Adults need to start acting better.

"On Nayeli Gomez's 10th birthday..."

feminist

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DY2QjArgdw9/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Actually, an intuitive told me that if exercise feels punishing, it's just going to make it harder.

So from an allopathic doctor's perspective, perhaps that's a cortisol thing.

A full-time student of the feminine.

 


"It's hard not to feel like parts of my life were robbed from me"

fitnesswithkaila

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DW1hv68hPdU/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"This explains a lot...God bless @drmaryclaire"

the_velvet_dwelling

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DYzZDYTRuun/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==


This looks like a queen!

 


"Now before anyone accuses me again..."

aphtykea

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DY0hhw3MqIR/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Appropriate for the era experiences.

 Peaceful moment outside.

🎶🎶🎶🎶


"One of many reasons tbf"

thmptypg

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DYJ2FAANcvA/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

PTSD from Existing in a Patriarchal Society, hast thou tricked me again?

Today I made potatoes in the oven, and when I touched one of them it exploded, which reminded me of something like that happening to the dad in a Ramona Quimby (au: B. Clearly) book.

 👩‍🌾🥔💥💃

"I believe you can do anything"

garron_music

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DVPCiYMjfiV/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"Even filming these bothers me tbh"

_alrighty_aphrodite_

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DTv57aHkuxu/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Today, after putting a book down for at least a week and then coming back to print media...this was at the top of the page:

"Now my shock is finished, I'm starting to feel angry at the trick he played on me. Asking for my milk!

'You were Lord Robert's fool,' Godfridus emphasizes.

Hercule sighs. ' Yes. But I was one of many. He had us all sleep together in an old henhouse, which he liked to visit with huntsman. He tried to breed us, to produce a race of tiny people. He had us mate for his sport.'

'Is that why you left him?'"

And then the character goes on to describe his many physical aches and pains.

Page 39 "Mirabilis" by Susann Cokal | Goodreads

https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/590147.Mirabilis

Feminist decolonizing creative writing group prompts

 She speaks to a lot of men her age about war, and this is what has been happening.


worsegirlfriend 

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DVrAE39kXcd/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==


"top 10 ways to make yourself normal"

worsegirlfriend

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DR5AwlYicS8/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Gee, I can just get an app for free on my phone instead of buying a keyboard.

Gee, if I'd been more psychic I would have paid closer attention when my grandma was trying to give me some piano lessons at her house in the Northern part of the country.

Amusing me and perhaps the great, great white trolls of the patriarchy.

 🚸


"Incognito tino"

aguicomedy

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DYfDCSIo2Az/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"Worth it"

aguicomedy

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DY2OhlzIW_t/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"Oo! Pesto!"

aguicomedy

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DYkNGeQo6hV/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"Emotionally secure household"

aguicomedy

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DYZ6mSIoUT1/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Kind of explains a lot.

 


"lol"

r/unsound

https://www.reddit.com/r/unsound/s/tmvWV8E64N

"I'm Imane"

imane_healing_studio

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUBk6I1jDZ2/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"We are still fighting"

bookish.bailee

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DVyzcWYAqxz/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==


Free...

I'm in a super comfy, long, new sundress that I bought on clearance and I like it a lot and I'm wearing it today.

"At the end of the day, it's a full time job"

poppytherescuecat

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DY2RiOgBR8S/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Caaaaats! 😻

 Fun! Loving! Creatures. 😺♥️


"I built this river for my cats"

tailbitpets

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DY0SOJsgEwO/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Cooking! 🍳

She is a parentified daughter.

💁‍♀️

_diyaaswani_

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DYXdlDXPlm1/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Such good sports!

 But not very great pay.


"Taking the boys outside"

isaamedinaa

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DYdgbQ5sDI_/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Did it make someone else happy?

"Is GenX okay?"

ameliaplease

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DVRMIx2ES95/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

But there are more discussion groups now.

Someone's using these as a way to generate more conversations with men and fathers.

"What many women inherit"

warpaintjournal

https://www.instagram.com/p/DYwrvkolCaB/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Look out for the unhappy men.

 They're not helping.

"Fright, blaspheming..."

rebmasel

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DW4cBHrD_Iv/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Somehow, people got convinced to put the most miserable dads in charge of things.

This country treats dads better than it treats moms (or all other kinds of women), and that really hasn't been working out so great for most people.

Music helps again.

 


"Keeps happening! Why you so silly"

sashbomb

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DYvvpk-zWeK/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Scrolling..."Underbabied???"

 Cats don't work for ICE. That's true!


"It's all corrupt"

fork.diet.culture

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DY0F4ANhiT-/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"People..."

gabsentminded

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DWnN7bHCAbB/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

"Cats don't work for ICE"

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DYhk5WnRZvx/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Do better for the next generations than you did for your cohort.

"No better feeling than..."

sashbomb

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DWX0TDeEzKN/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Glad I have a nice view and a happy cat. 😺

I need to stay inside. I hope I'm not ill. My stomach's feeling off today. I wonder what I'm supposed to do. But it has to do with staying inside. I know that.

⌨️ 🇺🇸 Good people; easy e-mail. 📨 🦅

  🗽🆓⚖️


"USA: RELEASE ASYLUM SEEKER WITH OVARIAN CYST (28.26)"

https://www.amnestyusa.org/urgent-actions/usa-release-asylum-seeker-with-ovarian-cyst/

"Don't wanna hear that"

@teamcoco

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DYz2AHaJ5jy/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

How fun to watch this in its entirety for the first time!

And to be able to understand more of the Dutch subtitles than I used to! Sometimes Dutch looks so similar to an older form of English.

"Give me my leather."

"Tori Amos Piano Shopping 1992"

@TheToriMountain

https://youtube.com/watch?v=BTvyXMhoDuw&si=uGnsnjzCCSGormfm


"Mother, the car is here."

Maybe it will happen soon.

Can a detained woman get her ovarian cyst operated on? Amnesty International has made it easy to at least send them a letter requesting this.

"USA: RELEASE ASYLUM SEEKER WITH OVARIAN CYST (28.26)"

https://www.amnestyusa.org/urgent-actions/usa-release-asylum-seeker-with-ovarian-cyst/

Can this help create change?

 10-year-old girl speaking out on her birthday as her father is detained by ICE.

"On her birthday, 10-year-old Nayeli Gomez stood outside the Delaney Hall ICE detention center in Newark, New Jersey, confronting guards..."

nessadiosdado

https://www.threads.com/@nessadiosdado/post/DY00qL4DjCb?xmt=AQG0tKf3K01oShC_977aOTSaewacpMkcU06XiGvUl4g97MTbxuGYPLaQgtcitzbiXsn8Vyc&slof=1

Can you tell if some people are interested in having a conversation...

Even if the conversation might not necessarily reflect their worldview right back at them? 

Can you tell if they are more interested in controlling the narrative and protecting themselves?

Can you tell if some people are open to being more curious and learning about new things?

Some people are beginning to have a new point of view about certain topics.

Or maybe some points of view are starting to get heard more now. 

"Violence against women and girls is a men's issue that manifests as a woman's problem."

_whatmakesaman_

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DVtaSzlCJZa/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Tuesday, May 26, 2026

I took this picture of a streak in the sky just before I met a guy who helped make flying machines.

I had "Airplane" by the Indigo Girls in my head.

We were both waiting at a light. He wished me a good day two times, but the light kept not changing. So then he started complaining about traffic patterns and people who want us to take mass transit because mass transit in California is terrible. And he also doesn't like that the government employees get pensions and he never got one. He worked with the metal that made aircraft. He said he won't write letters to the editors of newspapers  because big corporations have bought up all of the media. And he also doesn't like something Ronald Reagan did in the '80s with media regulations.

"Now everything is like Pravda," he said.

(I had to ask him what that was.)

He complained that having too many regulations ruins things, and ended by saying that if he wanted to buy a garbage truck and clean up the city, the city wouldn't let him because of all the regulations. Then he walked away and I thanked him for sharing his opinion but he didn't really look back. He was just on his way.

This house reminded me of "Ain't That America" by John Mellencamp.

A lady in the car in the driveway got out and said, "Why take pick chair? Why take pick chair?" I said I thought the butterfly on the front of the house looked pretty.

Indigo Girls ~ "Airplane"

https://youtube.com/watch?v=MhVcbRldEfs&si=LHcAsjD7pH4QoGEd

John Mellencamp - "Pink Houses (Official Music Video)"

https://youtube.com/watch?v=qOfkpu6749w&si=BIdd1MwlpO3PLRHw

Hmmm. Hmmm? Hmmm...

"White estrangement and how it affects our relationships with epigenetics"

paralyzedguts

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DWt-ul3ku3r/?igsh=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Well, I watched "The Nowhere Inn" for free on Kanopy.

"The Nowhere Inn Trailer #1 (2021)" | Movieclips Trailer 

https://youtube.com/watch?v=F4ryS0bJ7H0&si=Ap7O7Egf6KkF6nly

And if Mexican American Cat Dad wasn't working 6 to 7 days a week lately, sometimes 12 to 16-hour days, then it would have been fun to watch it with him because he's had Saint Vincent's music in his collection for years.

Ooo, ooo, ooo. 🎶


Stevie Nicks - "Edge of Seventeen (Official Music Video)"

https://youtube.com/watch?v=UmPgMc3R8zg&si=Aw7t4lkDysRnj60S

Human hands can make some really neat things!

 

Awesomesauce.

If these guys come back and suffer as the victims of their very own bad policies...

That ain't my fault.


God, I can't tell if I'd be more like Anne Frank or a soldier, and now I have to go for a walk.

Backstreet Boys - "Everybody (Backstreet's Back)"

https://youtube.com/watch?v=6M6samPEMpM&si=1Rn_5eMDXL45w-43