Like a lot of other people, I liked reading those stories where the spunky girl speaks out. But I know why people don't speak out about the abuse that happened in your families.
Because some of your families are filled with emotionally immature jerks who are going to treat you like crap if you try to have any truthful conversations with them about anything of importance. They will disown you, but they won't actually say they'll disown you. They'll just freeze you out.
And now you're like an honorary unseen immigrant who's supposed to wait on assholes like them all your all their lives and just remain unseen and in the shadows and grateful for the opportunity to serve their myopic, selfish egos.
Which is really just masking a lot of pain that they're not really ready to look at but that's too bad because some of us are being forced to look at it now. Not later. Not in the next life.
And some of us don't have a bunch of houses and land to comfort us and remind us that we did a good job and we played by the rules the right way. And we're "successful" now.
Meanwhile, what's happening to the value of the girls and women in this collapsing patriarchy? What are the men in charge doing right now?
And good for us for making excuses for the sexual predator dads who are always more important than all the daughters you guys don't want to think about. Really? Because The Patriarchy hates it so much when you have feelings and think about people like that. Why? Why is it so?
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