They are not okay.

Is it ideal to have to take time off to heal your traumatized nervous system when violence in the world has directly affected you?

No, it is not, but it happens for reasons.

I do not want or need to have a group of entitled, scared, selfish people telling me I am better off at being a very insensitive person who does not care about what's happening to other people in the world.

Just because the uncaring Patriarchal Society thinks I should ignore it all and just be good at propping up an inequitable society by focusing on owning a house?

I do not think it is possible and I do not want that way of life to be mine.

To me, that's not okay.