Quite simply, it's just not going to be as easy to do it.

That is why my grandchildren won't discriminate against "someone like you" as much as I discriminated against "someone like you" because everyone in my village was raised to unsee or discriminate against "someone like you" more than they were raised to unsee or discriminate against other kinds of people. It's not my fault, so you should blame the village's reliance on the Systemically Uncaring Patriarchy for those hurtful patterns.