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Love. KINDNESS. Gentleness. FORGIVENESS. THESE ARE THE BEST! I am not being facetious. I know they are...wonderful and powerful qualities that make life worth living. However.... http://www.patheos.com/blogs/sarahoverthemoon/2014/09/kindness-is-a-tool-of-empire-too-in-which-i-respond-to-sarah-bessey/ I wonder if people even know that sometimes they are using these words to shut people down. https://qz.com/956633/survey-nearly-40-americans-dont-think-its-always-appropriate-to-spend-time-with-people-of-the-opposite-sex/ Why do certain men (and women) inflict their hostile/benevolent sexist crap on others and why do some women (and men) continue to tolerate it? Because they can find a niche in which they can fit in, and doing so gives them some kind of temporal rewards? Where do these behaviors come from any way.