Wednesday, March 08, 2017

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It's early. I will need to make an appointment to be seen about the tooth. I cough. It's early. I can still get some sleep. Sometimes when people are sad or angry about feeling discriminated against, it can make them sick. It's a sad situation. It's stressful. Because you think, what can you do. Maybe you should just ignore it. (Did you try that? Did it work?) "Get over it." That's what they want you to do. Get over it. Move on. They are not going to help you. But that's sad. These are people you gave time to. These are people you thought would be helpful. People believe their own personal preferences should direct things, instead of valuing inclusiveness. They don't actually set out to exclude, but they do. Then they get mad that you are calling them on it. Why can't you just be a good sport like so and so. Maybe it would be better to just get over it. Move on. Go elsewhere. But it feels unresolved. It feels like this stuff will keep on happening and the motive to change will not be there and others will be devalued. How tiresome it us. Is it really that hard??? Just go elsewhere. It's stressful. I hope I never make someone feel like that.

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