Their values just seem so peculiar!

"That's how the culture wanted me to act, and that's how I got my materialistic rewards."

It's sad that some women and men would find it so much easier to "respect" certain other kinds of people more if only they were more "like them." If only they were more chauvinistic and materialistic and Patriarchal, like they are. If only they had the same "values."

"Why do you not know how to act that way so you can get rewarded more, too?"