Someday things will change for the better.

When more of the women & men who are still making so many excuses for entitled, abusive behavior patterns acknowledge that they can see much more interesting possibilities on the horizon, better changes might begin unfolding more swiftly. Just because some have, in the past, acclimated themselves to being overly accomodating of certain kinds of abusive people while extracting secondary gains which are still unsustainably harmful to their neighbors, that doesn't mean their values will always be so decrepit, and their choices might even help create a much better society someday.