see this

is waaay more subtle than all those women who good wifily supported roy moore last year (but perhaps not entirely unrelated)

https://valerietarico.com/2014/10/31/psychological-harms-of-christianity/

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https://www.christianitytoday.com/women/2014/march/unfortunate-art-of-female-self-sabotage.html

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https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/women-trade-self-worth-for-awe-and-wonder