Your actions. Look at how you act and why you are acting like that. The system affects you.

How scary is systemic change, and what kind of change is the most scary, and why?

If you act like you have an irresistible need to be able to fit in with some not especially kind rich people, are there any less immature, kinder rich people you can hang out with, too?

Regarding ways that you chose to behave in order to make yourself feel better. I think putting it down in words, since you're already acting a certain way about certain kinds of women and children, would be more honest and considerate of those other kinds of women and other people's children.

That is what I think right now.

Was much of your childhood spent considering what was going on with the othered ones, including women and other people's children? No? Yes? Sometimes? You did do it sometimes, probably. Do you have to hide that part of yourself in order to fit in with some other people?

Why do you think some people always have to consider the well-being of others' children and not you so much? And not them, the ones you have to fit in with more. Well, why not them?

I don't understand. So I want to understand. Because it doesn't seem like the greatest way to be in the long term, and it just seems like a little short-term, stop-gap type of thing is going on.

It seems like some people are scared of change. That's what it seems like. People who found ways to benefit from the way the system was set up and now the system is crumbling, but we're supposed to try to get more people to have better lives. That's what I think. Not just a favored few who were able to make it in the old system. Not just a favored few who were able to make it in the old system.