But really, why do I not like things that seem very bad for me?

Is it better for other people in society to be that way? Is it better for other people's parents to be that way? Is it better for other people's sons or daughters to be that way? Is it better for other people's bank accounts to be that way? It just seems like it's not good. It just seems like it's thoughtless. It only seems like it's good for maybe some bank accounts and that's it, but bank accounts don't have feelings.