No matter how much some people intend to continue with that "still too oppressed to not continue to be oppressive" sugarcoating

I still feel like the Patriarchal Society of this era has been way too violent and oppressive for far too many, and I think it's gonna look that way to a lot of people in the future too.

This is a way of communicating dissatisfaction with current patriarchal norms alongside the intent of encouraging more people to start expecting much better for much greater numbers of people.

It's like, quit pretending for short term gains just to get by when better things are possible, and maybe better things are already occurring in some places.