Why did being so mean to others seem like the best choice to them?

"It's wild out here in these streets"

Jen Hamilton 

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT6YTuwhd/

Jen Hamilton

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT6YTV2vk/

Maybe they really did deserve much better than the Patriarchal Ones wanted to believe they deserved.