No, the practices that seemed okay to other people will not be okay for you.

"It's an attempt to shift responsibility. Along the lines of, 'It's not our fault that we oppress women, because God or Jesus said so,' or 'Women are just worth less because of biology, are only allowed to be with a few men, are only allowed to do this and that,' says Wittwer."

~ Rayna Breuer

"How the manosphere is making misogyny mainstream – DW – 06/30/2025"

https://www.dw.com/en/misogyny-manosphere-influencers-with-millions-of-followers/a-73060131

"Many of these women who share the ideas of the manosphere also create accounts and promote their lifestyle as the only valid one."

~ Rayna Breuer

Regardless of whether it's the women or the men who are enforcing it, the dangers and damages to others are real.