And there are reasons why.

Frankly, if you think you have to act like a closed-minded bigot in order to get enough money to raise children, I simply don't believe you. 

One thing to consider is, you're not in a Nazi concentration camp. Sometimes you just choose to be closed-minded to fit in with other closed-minded people, and if you keep it up, somebody is going to get hurt, even if it's not you. 

Someone is going to get born who doesn't fit in to your close-minded, selfish, uncaring and unaccepting way of doing things, and then it will be very hurtful that you cannot accept that person. Because you are simply too comfortable with the way things are to be open to caring about somebody who is too different from you.

And the worst thing is, I'm not sure if that's really who you are. It's just who you decided it was good enough to be.

Consider reevaluating your survival strategy sooner rather than later.