I, not a man, and Frank

Frank is a man and men matter most to the patriarchy.

Frank, who was also friendly with a woman who used to be a bartender, felt free to express that he was outraged at the system for treating the rape victims of Bill Cosby so badly. 

I, NOT A MAN IN THIS LIFETIME, would have never started a conversation about that topic with a stranger in a public place.

Or, that's how I felt yesterday, at least.

This was not in a bar. This was at a swimming pool. I don't know if he and the bartender talked about it because I just saw her as I was leaving.