And do you want to know why I think you should ask for more help? Because I think it's life or death. That's why.

I'm going to have to ask some favored siblings to make a lot more efforts when it comes to noticing certain patterns that their more misogynistic friends and fans keep repeating. 

You're going to have to start noticing them because it doesn't really benefit you that much to not notice, and because a lot of them will stop doing it so much to others when you start raising the bar by noticing it when it happens to others, and when you start talking about it.