Silence indicates that people want you to be a non-entity who doesn't matter and isn't important. Like a person locked away in a detention center that they just prefer to forget about. The not real ones; that's the category people get relegated to when they become too inconvenient to consider as a real person. Maybe the reason why people end up doing that is because they didn't heal from the abuse that they experienced themselves and so then they end up repeating old patterns.
Some people are going to be emotionally immature until they die. Maybe they'll do better in the next life. It's too hard for them to change in this life. They're going to constantly expect you to pretend that things are fine to suit them and their childish outlook on the world. Even when abuse happens they don't want to admit that it happened and they don't want to say sorry that it happened and they're just locked into a survival mode and they can't see any other way of being. That is definitely going to damage some things.
That's why you have to go on your own and try to heal yourself because you can't wait for other people to want to heal as much as you have to heal in order to be able to piece your psyche back together.
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