I think that's a pattern that can stop continuing and it can change for the better.

Women who have been raised by the Patriarchy to be prejudiced against certain kinds of girls and women

who need men who have been raised by the patriarchy to be prejudiced against certain kinds of girls and women 

to make them both feel good about their choices to be prejudiced against certain kinds of girls and women 

are indulging themselves by going along with a pattern that simply can't just go on like that forever!