Wouldn't that be weird?

What if you were not a guy and had a dream that you met someone and you were all full of feminine youth and optimism and you told that someone all of the fine qualities you saw in him and in his soul, such as a capacity for compassion...a whole list of things. And then the man was somehow given this list. And he handed it back to you. For some reason he did not check "compassion" on his list. He did however check "marriage." As if to say, Well I am not interested in compassion. I am interested in marriage. Weird. What was that about? Dream ended before there was any chance of incorporating 15th century shenanigans...marriage minus compassion what is wrong with you???