Sometimes, a certain kind of man looks like a person who is never going to be treated as much like garbage by some very unwell patriarchal people, or at least not in the particular way that they treat people in female bodies like garbage.
This includes some unhealed women, as they were trained to treat certain kinds of female-bodied people very badly indeed.
Why do they feel they have to act that way? I still don't understand what they get out of it. But perhaps they get some social acceptance from other patriarchal people.
That seems to be the best answer I can come up with, sometimes.
Perhaps they get a better sense of financial security and safety, too, but it just seems so incredibly shaky and fragile.
It doesn't even look like real security and safety.
Some very unwell patriarchal women who have already treated the girls and women in their own family
VERY BADLY
were encouraged by certain societal elements to emulate abusers, and they still cannot seem to admit that they really did get just that brainwashed.
They have not healed yet, from that brainwashing that they got.
Who knows if they ever will in this lifetime? Maybe. Maybe not.
And if they act like they don't feel able to choose anything better, and its as if behaving like immature, materialistic, selfish bullies is their primary defense mechanism, that shows just how much an unhealthy, abusive, patriarchal mindset has infiltrated their psyches.
Were they born into some sort of mafia of misogyny?
What's the deal?
How can they cling to that so desperately?
How can they not know that they could do better and could have a better life?
Well, they better not expect other people to repeat their patterns.
There's no way everyone can exist that way!
It's literally impossible!
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