It's amazing the excuses some people will make and the avoidance and deflections some people will turn to.

You got trained by the patriarchy to be selfish and enslaved to money and to patriarchal standards. That's what you act like happened to you. 

You will constantly treat abusive men better and discount women when you have that mentality.

You're definitely not first on the list when it comes to admiring people who know how to take responsibility for the things that come out of their mouths and their actions and their choices and their attitudes. 

You're the sort of role model that I'm like: Okay, now I know what I don't want to do in this life.