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Friday, March 31, 2023

As an afterthought

I hope when I feel better I can go to a spa! Your brother can have better things when he stops caving into the Ways of The Patriarchal Bullies so much.

Prayers are good, too.

I really hope my left ear will get better soon.

I KNOW

turn those personalities into a monument of honesty and ENJOY!!!!

It's kinda like, this well-fed one is now thinking

What if health is the real wealth, but lots of stuff that gets rewarded in terms of monetary value by the patriarchs of the 2020s is gonna look super UN healthy in...actually it might only be in a few years! REALLY. ha ha

Should have taken a picture...

Tzatziki, cucumbers, parsley, roasted peppers (red, orange and green!) potato wedges, onions, and sauteed mushrooms with parsley and oregano, and burgers cooked two ways (with & without red wine, but with my version of "merguez" - rosy harissa seasoning and a little fennel) plus a sprinkling of pink himalayan salt and freshly ground pepper...

Another part of the brain wishes ice cream cured illnesses!

"History will judge societies and governments - and the institutions - not by how big they are or how well they serve the rich and the powerful, but by how effectively they respond to the needs of the poor and the helpless." - #CesarChavez

https://twitter.com/UFWupdates/status/1641820204337360899

Please show her a healing path today.

Easily and effortlessly and with gratitude accept healing now.

Healing needs to be prioritized.

Reiki Sound Bath | "Singing bowl music"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sgL1UzG5c4A

Please help heal ear and body and nervous system.

Thursday, March 30, 2023

Took two, like in the olden days

Jefferson Airplane - "White Rabbit, Live from..."

https://youtu.be/Vl89g2SwMh4

Should have taken ONE, said the box. Lasts 4 hours. Hopefully it will BE FINE.


Cure something to the left; cure something to the right

Now i lay me down to search 
For Eustachian tube dysfunction cures 
At least the TENS device on the lower back worked 
So that's worth trying again!

¡Preguntale!

Now I know it's also a film with William Shatner!

https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x2rzk16

Who is not even in the "Go Ask Alice (1973) - William Shatner - Trailer (Drama)" ????

http://whatthehelldammit.blogspot.com/2019/07/go-ask-alice-1973-made-for-tv-movie.html

"Academic Support"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=joX4A64Jo2k

"Whoo hoo!! She is so #Beautiful!! I'm so #Grateful to see more #Indigenous Representation for #Women

#Representation in #Comedy & #Arts are Next!! 😃💖 #NativeAmerican #Cherokee #Aboriginal #ABOriginal #Bloodline"

@DanaSchwartzzz

https://twitter.com/TheKhalLisaS2/status/1641174965360762885

"Bookstores Won't Stop Selling It."

https://www.esquire.com/entertainment/books/a40204753/go-ask-alice-book-is-a-lie/


Good Food Energy: Student Honors Farmworkers

"Many farmworkers showed their appreciation towards Gonzalez and the businesses, including local Farmworker Marcos Mendoza Bernabe who says he has been working in Idaho’s fields since 1991.

"I'm grateful for everything. What they are doing out here and that the community is here to honor us. Thank God these dates come around because it encourages those who work in the fields,” Mendoza Bernabe said."

~ Brenda Rodriguez 

https://www.ktvb.com/article/news/local/local-student-honors-idahos-farmworkers-with-free-food-clothes-and-services/277-c3fc9579-a5e1-4cac-b68e-b5ef0bb71cd6

"I have some personal experience doing fieldwork. I know it can be hard because they work in very hot weather even when it's raining outside. I get the struggle,” Gonzalez said.

~ Brenda Rodriguez 

https://www.ktvb.com/article/news/local/local-student-honors-idahos-farmworkers-with-free-food-clothes-and-services/277-c3fc9579-a5e1-4cac-b68e-b5ef0bb71cd6

"For high school student Gabriela Gonzalez’ senior project, she partnered with local businesses to help provide necessities to local farm workers."

~ Brenda Rodriguez 

https://www.ktvb.com/article/news/local/local-student-honors-idahos-farmworkers-with-free-food-clothes-and-services/277-c3fc9579-a5e1-4cac-b68e-b5ef0bb71cd6

Well, at least I will get better at listening to her, then.

Body seems to believe it really is for the best to focus on getting better at healing right now.

Dislike?

On The Other Hand, Entire Careers Based on Dehumanizing Others JUST To Fit In With CERTAIN Patriarchal Norms Have Bought SOME PEOPLE Their Very Nice Big Houses AND THAT SORT OF MENTALITY DOESN'T JUST CHANGE OVERNIGHT, YOU KNOW.

Doesn't Humanity Deserve Better Than Being At The Mercy of Unhealthy Coping Mechanisms?

And yes, there are some patriarchal ones who naturally had so much more compassion for others when they were younger.

Then, sadly, they killed those traits off in themselves in order to fit in with irresponsible & abusive people and practices.

When does the next wave of caring and respectful people get to come to the forefront to be able to demonstrate how to be examples of compassionate responsibility?

Are you AWAKE?

Do you know that the famous women and men who were trained by Patriarchal Values to put down and dehumanize girls and women are not making it better for boys and men, either?

Oooi, gotta show this to someone...

Buffy Sainte-Marie & Tanya Tagaq "You Got To Run (Spirit Of The Wind)"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o5zb0WTSLsY


I GET It that people just wanna have fun and feel good.

But again, I still don't get why certain folks in certain industries act so unkindly and even too much like certain uncaring cops too, sometimes. WHY?

https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/michigan-departments-first-female-cop-alleges-relentless-harassment-rcna76194

And I'm sure there's a bunch of community members who are friends with those guys and totally see "their side" of things and dispute her experiences.

How is being so rude and discriminatory to others even fun / amusing? Why? It's sick.

They are all in need.

Wednesday, March 29, 2023

Amen & Alleluia

"I just want to feel good," people say.

And surely people deserve all kinds of good things. Haven't they had enough suffering. Surely they deserve to feel good. They deserve pain relief, CBD, & flower essences,too...

How to get your lower back to love you?

Worked on that for a while. Purring cat is lending moral support, yay...😻

Evolve beyond what was expected!

Don't know why the patriarchy trains humans to be so abusive towards the people they're inclined to dehumanize if they can't control them or date them or get with them or whatever.

Learn.

"Woman hospitalized after TikTok prank in Orange County Target store"

Rain.🌧️🕊️☔ Peace.

A cat who was not feeling well earlier ate a little bit of food later and now takes a nap on the chair by the big window as the rain drops fall...

https://www.wellandgood.com/morning-anxiety/


Good thing THEY are not starving to death from sexism unlike some peapull, eh?

It really makes you wonder if A Daily Sexism Regimen Is Their Secret Strategy To Ignoring SO Many Hungry Children & Single Moms, or something?

"Our Egos Are Way More Important As You Know"

Dear Patriarchal People...It is True.

Your Really Oppressive Habitual Abandonment of Certain Kinds of Girls & Women & Propensity for Denying Them Basic Human Rights is SO Extremely Unhelpful, Though.

SO Why Not Become More Open To Acknowledging That All of Humanity Exists TODAY?

Can drinking water help A Real Human Being?

It's too early to be feeling sick from knowing that Emotionally Immature People are still in the habit of Oppressively Unseeing so many girls and women just to be in favor of certain kinds of sexual harrassers trying fit in with Very Sick & Unhealthy Patriarchal Values...

During the sort of light trance session

I said, "I was in a different body at something like a party and I looked like I fit in on the outside, but on the inside I was elsewhere and ready to move on."

To be cont...

I think my lower back pain thinks people can go deeper and be more interesting than being so mean like the flip side of 

Tuesday, March 28, 2023

Really

I am sorry if so much is worse and more stressful now.

Maybe Your Brother Friend Can Do That, Too

Maybe if he works on respecting and healing himself more then it will come naturally to him to be more honest when he interacts with others and then he won't have to do anymore of that "But I put down myself after I put down others to make it seem like that's just the way it is, and then it looks like it's all just a joke anyway, and so long as I put myself down, too, I can convince myself that it's more 'even' now" nonsense anymore.

Getting into human rights could be like honing your acting skills?

Fun, exciting, creative, challenging, rewarding, YOUR CALLING????

Now what that quote sounds like...

"Sick and tired of hearing her pity story."

https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/michigan-departments-first-female-cop-alleges-relentless-harassment-rcna76194

Is like something a male comedian who gets millions of dollars to cater to incels and man camps would say to a woman who once crawled into a car wreck to rescue an elderly woman and got repeatedly harassed and degraded by coworkers, anyway.

Glory Days

"Teresa Williams was the second girl to play football at her Wisconsin high school.Courtesy Jack Schulz

It was that type of spirit that led her to be a police officer in a department of only men, Williams said."

~ Antonio Planas

"First female police officer in rural Michigan town says fellow cops relentlessly harassed and assaulted her"

https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/michigan-departments-first-female-cop-alleges-relentless-harassment-rcna76194

"As a caring parent, I look forward to us having mature discussions about respecting human beings"

 "Nomi Abadi vowed to expose one of Hollywood’s last dirty secrets: the toxic, abusive work conditions that run rampant behind the closed doors of soundtrack composing studios."

~ Andrew Gumbel 

https://www.theguardian.com/film/2023/feb/20/film-scoring-hollywood-misconduct-abuse-harassment-metoo

A film based on her might be tougher for some dads to watch!

"'It comes with great sadness that I am doing this today, but yet on the other hand a sigh of relief,' Williams wrote. 'From this day forward I do not have to be afraid of you guys anymore. … I will not be silenced anymore. I will continue to stand tall, and stand up for what is right.'"

~ Kara Berg

https://www.detroitnews.com/story/news/local/michigan/2023/02/21/lawsuit-iron-mountain-michigan-police-sexual-harassment-discrimination/69928689007

Why Not Ask Yourself Why It's Not Fun!?

When certain oppressive, chauvinist behaviors, which would be considered highly disrespectful and unhealthy if certain categories of people did them, are more often excused by others when certain wealthy people behave that way? 

Like, instead of rewarding people

for putting up with disrespectful behavior and setting precedents skewing what level of abusiveness passes as "normal" in "the industry," what could be a better way of making a living?

How hard is it to NOT get sucked into being unnecessarily disrespectful when you could have been better?

"'Emotionally, physically and mentally, you get immersed in their narcissism,' one survivor said of her years working in the Hollywood system. 'Most of the time you don’t dare tell anybody. You feel shame, or you feel you deserve it, or you just put up with it.'”

~ Andrew Gumbel

https://www.theguardian.com/film/2023/feb/20/film-scoring-hollywood-misconduct-abuse-harassment-metoo

But WHY?

 "My genetics and my bank account, duh."

Bigotry is lazy.

"I only cater to predators so my kids get to play video games while other kids get poisoned by pesticides."

How to fit in regardless of political party

Men who say, 'I know that if I were a teenager being sexually harassed in a tomato field right now, lots of people in my life would not care about me at all! I just can't seem to get motivated to make any change, so I must eat my feeling$."

Can That Beauty Queen Change, Too?

Yesterday, The Abusive Patriarchy was her Meal Ticket and Indigenous Teenage Girls were Her Slaves. But What About Today!?

Good to know that society can still evolve and change! Hooray...

"Even if X still seems to feel like she has to act like abusive predatory rich men are far more important than all the rest of the human beings on the planet today, that doesn't mean it will be that way forever. 

And it certainly doesn't mean you have to believe that way of life is what is best for society."

If she gets a better wellness routine, maybe it won't be so hard?

"I simply can't believe X is always going to be so full of her own pain that she just can't be bothered to acknowledge the humanity of certain kinds of people in certain kinds of bodies for the rest of this entire lifetime."

Aren't They Well Enough to STOP Dehumanizing People In Certain Kinds of Bodies Yet?

Seemingly not, SO, are YOU working on finding the people who don't constantly cater to the abusive patriarchs as a way of coping with reality?

How old do certain parents have 2 B

to stop dehumanizing X type of people just because An Unhealthy Patriarchal Culture expected that behavior from them?

At Least They have A Lot of Money to Share with Society?

Unscrupulous Rich People who are far more charming to The Wealthiest Ones than they are to other kinds of Human Beings, for Numerous Disturbing Reasons?

It's SO Unhealthy for Society!

Why does X find it SO hard to appreciate the ones who feed her (just because The Patriarchal Colonizer Customs trained her to act like it was far more important to cater to Abusive Patriarchal Dudes?)

Life is A Learning Experience.

"Dehumanizing Others Actually Hurts Real Human Beings."

"Perhaps They Will Soon Find Some Other 'Other Ways' of Spending Their Time On This Planet."

"Good Thing You Know People Who Know There Are Other Paths To Take In This Life."

"Since Dehumanizing Others Just To Fit In With Some Selfish Unsafe Sexist Unwell Predatory Patriarchal People is Not Even Gonna Be Doable For You."

What's so funny about some comedians or others

being addicted to treating abusive creepy rich guys better than anyone else on the planet?

What is so ha ha ha hilarious about being super unwell to other human beings like that?

Monday, March 27, 2023

Early am music to calm you after you had to make a phone call

"Magic" ~ Olivia Newton John 


Neighbors were having a loud and distressing domestic dispute and a knife was involved, as were some responders.

Sunday, March 26, 2023

Sing sing sing sing

things are gonna get better, things are looking good 108x!

Next up: Memory of A Woman Who Cried...

After she was quite nice to me and so was a charming man she'd been seeing, but he wasn't especially nice to her, so seeing him be nice to me made her cry, which is why, even though he gave me good feedback and compliments, I hid from him when I saw him walking past my window one day, and I think he saw me and knew I was hiding, but then I didn't think of him again for a cluster of months, until a mutual acquaintance told me he'd gotten cancer which progressed rapidly and in a short matter of time, he died. Oh the stubborn humanity!

A very nice golden retriever appeared in my dream

And several human beings gave me some good energy...these are a few of my favorite things..

Make a friend? Escape a predator? Put out an album?

CLEARLY, OTHER SITUATIONS APPLY AS WELL.

How refreshing.

"Auli'i Cravalho Makes Powerful Statement in Support of Missing Indigenous Women with Lipstick Handprint 'I felt like I had to put my money where my mouth was,' the actress said on the red carpet at the Power premiere"

https://people.com/style/aulii-cravalho-supports-missing-indigenous-women-with-lipstick-handprint/

Saturday, March 25, 2023

They can and should know better.

You mean, you can't be in the "Ladies making excuses for unwell predators just to fit in with unhealthy patriarchal norms" club?

Another "I feel sick and hope to be better soon" morning.

People deserve better than what the rich insensitive ones making excuses for abusive patriarchal customs and behaviors are repeating. People. Deserve. BETTER.

Friday, March 24, 2023

Pie Pie Pie PIE Pie Pie Piiiiiie?

Perhaps Their "me me me ME me me meeeeee🎶" Lord&Ladyships will be facilitating pie-eating contests for the upper percenters' feel-good charitable fundraisers to help out the hungry.

Meanwhile, growing numbers of adult "nepo babies" with sufficient compassion as well as funds for therapy will be volunteering very minimal but still significant amounts of time to help out the nation's burgeoning food banks, rape crisis centers, and etcetra in a concentrated effort to show that the "ME TOO" movement was not in vain. 

Which is why it is no longer acceptable for "certain categories of human beings" to be treated like the "outcast untouchables" of  "civilized" society in the post-pandemic 2020s.

Famous musician?

"Zitkála-Šá: Trailblazing American Indian Composer" | Unladylike2020 | American Masters | PBS - YouTube

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=oHaggw_Za7g&feature=youtu.be

A liitle bit of learning about Jovita has happened.

"Jovita Idar: Mexican American Activist and Journalist"| Unladylike2020 | American Masters | PBS - YouTube

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=2NK-Y-WVsT4&feature=youtu.be

Forget Old Man...what about Cloud?

El Cloud neither sucks up to the predatory patriarchs in order to "make it" in the industry, nor does it get stressed out with constantly trying to protect the vulnerable from unwell followers who got warped by catering to patriarchal cult mentalities...aaaaaaah!

"Old Man Yells at Cloud" | Know Your Meme

https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/old-man-yells-at-cloud

Wednesday, March 22, 2023

Help, God?

It literally feels hard to stay alive, for some reason? Can we please improve our situation, already?

Hey, I don’t like it, but...

Gotta admit that it sure looks like that horrid sex predator Donald Trump put in way more effort to convince certain classes that he had their best interests at heart than the average nepot ever will in this lifetime.

"Thatsa good one!"

 "I think Penny is the only one enjoying it… #talkingcat #pennythecat" - YouTube

https://m.youtube.com/shorts/vc0pzY3Vy04

&&&&&&

"Amy's nine-year-old son is passionate about cats"

~ Sarah Easedale

"Cost of living: Animal shelter sees rise in cats given up" - BBC News

https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-wales-65017536

Visualize "hunger cliff"...what do you see???

"To view food pantries near you, visit the Los Angeles Regional Food Bank website."

~ Will Conybeare

"Pandemic-era food stamp benefits ending in California, food banks expecting rise in hunger"

https://ktla.com/news/local-news/calfresh-pandemic-benefits-ending-food-banks-bracing-for-hunger-cliff/

Big Big Big Big Houses

From sick to sicker to so sick to oh gosh maybe that is a whisper of relief?

Steve Martin on Twitter: "Guess what just happened! https://t.co/V4aNJjQUKW" / Twitter

https://twitter.com/SteveMartinToGo/status/1638271030652293138

Pop Base on Twitter: "Law Roach reveals Zendaya’s reaction to his retirement: “She called and said, ‘Girl, I thought we make big decisions together.’ She, of course, supported me. She's like, ‘do you need me to send you on a vacation? Like tell me what you're going through.’” https://t.co/crNFYDFg8n" / Twitter

https://twitter.com/PopBase/status/1638251380635996160

Steve Martin on Twitter: "Turns out this happened, too. https://t.co/2bWzL3Z15J" / Twitter

https://twitter.com/SteveMartinToGo/status/1638272321990414348

savannah ~* on Twitter: "this tiktok of sofia coppola’s daughter… this means so much to me https://t.co/6AQtWNhAgG" / Twitter

https://twitter.com/savbrads/status/1638200607851806725

Brats are hungry, yada yada, who even is listening?

"'Craig Schepis, founder of Ballarat's Soup Bus, told ABC Ballarat Breakfast the current cost of living was 'really killing people.'

'We're into our 15th year of operation, and it's the worst it has ever been in regards to numbers we're trying to assist,' he said."

By Lexie Jeuniewic and Steve Martin

"Ballarat, Morwell Foodbanks further delayed as demand reaches boiling point" - ABC News

https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-03-21/foodbank-ballarat-morwell-further-delay-cost-of-living-pressure/102123354


Big Healing Orientation Energy is Here

And O MY is it ever WAY More INCLUSIVE than Certain Patriarchal People With Their Big Money Issues Distracting Them Would Even Like To Almost Be Thinking About Today!

Be Good!

Your Body, Your Heating Pad, Your Choice!!!!

"How to Survive a Greatly Painful Wake-Up in Your Next Life & Get Your Body to Heal & Not Kill You"

"STOP MENSTRUAL CRAMPS - 'Luna's Touch' - Relaxation & Stress Relief Music Therapy" - YouTube

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=zi8GWfU4Rk0&feature=youtu.be

"Actually, it was more the five alarm lower back pain this time" Edition.

Rainstorms, brainstorms.

Climate change and all.

Any thoughts on being positive because you have feelings and want to help vs. pushing away and excluding others?

Tuesday, March 21, 2023

🎶🟥🟧🟨 aw 🟩🟦🟪🎶

"10 Minute Crystal Singing Bowl Meditation | Sound Healing For Relaxation & Stress Relief" - YouTube

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=unCya_-8ECs

Take care of your health.

Wanted to go out but the body made us change our plans again. More layers to heal. It is real.

It was A Different Time ⭐🎬🌙

"Bible Salesmen" - Paper Moon (3/8) Movie CLIP (1973) HD - YouTube

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ATGMbNOmAYs

"Praise the Lord" ~ Paper Moon - YouTube

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=AlcVmowWnec

Today's "Not All Buddhists" reminder...

"According to Posner, Sasaki exploited Cohen’s fame to 'attract women into the Zen center,' adding to his hundreds of abuse victims."

~ Eliyahu Freedman

"Leonard Cohen Was No Jewish Saint" - Hey Alma
https://www.heyalma.com/leonard-cohen-was-no-jewish-saint/

"the 15-year-old girls
I wanted when I was 15
I have them now
it is very pleasant
it is never too late
I advise you all
to become rich and famous"

~ L. Cohen, "The Energy of Slaves"

Monday, March 20, 2023

Obviously, Societal Norms Can Evolve Over Time!

"When people practice a version of 'positive thinking' that mainly behooves predatory men with money and leaves out lots of other kinds of people, as well as the HEALTH OF THE PLANET, there's so much room for improvement!"

~ VOICE.

"Michelle Obama Says She Didn't Have the Role Models That Young Women Have Today"

https://www.instyle.com/michelle-obama-the-light-podcast-women-role-models-7367940

Feel better for REAL and actually DO better.

Chauvinists should not be acting like it's their duty to ruin the planet just to placate a few selfish, loudmouthed xenophobes, but evidently, that's how they were conditioned to respond to certain environments.

Look for the people who aren't acting against their own interests (as well as others) even though that's evidently what the Destructive Patriarchal Ones still want them to do.

Now.

I am going to pray.

Seems wise!

Can more parents on Earth care about the environment and people from other cultures yet? Breeeeathe.

From the 90s, again! Good one, eh?

 PJ Harvey - "Sheela Na Gig" - YouTube

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=AF3H-cG-sk4&feature=youtu.be

One time this year it was March 17th and I purchased the last "Irish Cream" cupcake and split it with another when I got home & he thought it was okay but to me it tasted very disappointing, and yet a voice said, "You got the right cupcake."

Beautiful illustrations & interesting content!

"was once a three-day carnival that finished on March 18 – Sheelah’s Day."

By Maureen O'Hare, illustrations by Sarah-Grace Mankarious

"The 'female Saint Patrick': What history got wrong" | CNN

https://www.cnn.com/travel/article/sheela-na-gigs-ireland/index.html

Here comes a Voice again.

Voice: "Sometimes I just can't believe some people thought I was gonna...and then look what they did, and how they acted! The nerve!"

OPINION: Breathing exercises really are good for one's health!

I did some, and then I fell asleep and had a very pleasant dream that I went to an artist's house with my cat, fell asleep again, and a little while later woke up feeling all refreshed and cozy and appreciative. 🙏🌷😊

Next Life.

"Sovereign Inupiat for a Living Arctic, an Indigenous Alaskan organization, pointed out in a letter to Biden that this project means devastation: “Approval of a project the size of Willow would be climate suicide. Coastal villages in Alaska are losing land to erosion at breakneck speed, permafrost thaw is causing dramatic changes to the ecosystem and the destruction of oil and other infrastructure, and Alaska Natives are at risk of losing their jobs, homes, and lives in a place which is warming at four times faster than the rest of the world.”

We are already failing to stop runaway climate change. Adding this carbon bomb to the total makes it worse – both for the actual damage to the climate and for the signal the US is sending to the world. The Biden administration has made a colossal mistake."

~ R. Solnit

"Biden just betrayed the planet – and his own campaign vows" | Rebecca Solnit | The Guardian

It's still hard for the patriarchy to change, in the 2020s.

"Of course this is like saying 'We’re going to kill your mother but we’re sending guards to protect your grandmother.'"

~ Rebecca Solnit

"Biden just betrayed the planet – and his own campaign vows" | Rebecca Solnit | The Guardian

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/mar/14/biden-willow-project-betrayal-campaign-vows-climate-crisis

Why'd he do that? Patriarchal pressure? Ask the young'uns?

"Biden just betrayed the planet – and his own campaign vows" | US politics | The Guardian

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/mar/14/biden-willow-project-betrayal-campaign-vows-climate-crisis

"I call it an act of terrorism, because this drilling project in Alaska produces petroleum, which will be burned, which will send carbon dioxide into the atmosphere, where it will contribute to climate chaos that will affect people in the South Pacific, the tropics, the circumpolar Arctic, will affect the melting of the Greenland ice shield (this month reaching a shocking 50F warmer than normal). It doesn’t just produce petroleum; it produces huge quantities of it, resulting in an estimated 278m metric tons of carbon emissions."

~ Rebecca Solnit

This is just a bit o' humor

Derived from repetitive old song inspo.

"I want a guy
Just like the guys who
Disrespected dear old mom

I wanna be just like the ones who make excuses for the icky sexual harrasser boys on school buses

I wanna be just like the dudes who really get the toxic mentalities of the sexist, the overbearing..."

Nevermind. Back to the original: "Itsa patriarchy!"

American Quartet - "I Want a Girl (Just Like the Girl That Married Dear Old Dad)" (1911) - YouTube
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=U1wlgS5ioaU&feature=youtu.be

She looks like a ghost!

"If you have nine girls in a row..."

Start a brothel, they make more money! Lol.

"Keep Your Sunny Side Up Lyrics" - Good News! Cast - Soundtrack Lyrics

https://www.stlyrics.com/lyrics/goodnews/keepyoursunnysideup.htm

MAYBE that's because I was told that in Pennsylvania, sororities weren't allowed to become "houses of ill repute" but no one "officially" had a problem with fraternities, and also you needed to stay away from them because they were such dangerous places????

Benefiting and / or reinforcing?

"And not everyone in the group of the oppressed suffers the same level of oppression. As such, there will be women, who suffer from the patriarchal system differently, and who also benefit and thus reinforce it, in much deeper ways than they realise."

~ Emilly Comfort Maractho

https://www.monitor.co.ug/uganda/oped/commentary/is-feminism-entirely-about-women--4164682

"But Cindy’s ‘advise’, speaks to a larger issue. For as long as feminism has been around, it has been resisted by various groups, for the most part because it challenges existing power structures, and privileges of those for whom the status quo works better. 

Any movement that purports to dismantle a system of oppression will not be supported by everyone, because inherently, there are always large numbers of people who benefit from an oppressive system."

~ Emilly Comfort Maractho

And that is because...

 "I rarely have known safety and was always blamed for for the assaults."

~ Tatum O' Neal 

https://www.indiewire.com/2018/10/tatum-oneal-paper-moon-sexual-assault-1202010231/

"Tatum O’Neal, the youngest Academy Award winner in history, has responded to Donald Trump’s mockery of Dr. Christine Blasey Ford by revealing that she has been “sexually assaulted more than once” throughout her life. In an Instagram post, the “Paper Moon” star — who was just 10 years old when she won the Academy Award for Best Supporting Actress — opens up about her experiences and opines the current political climate.

“I am a woman and i have been sexually assaulted more than once,” O’Neal writes alongside an image of her in “Paper Moon.” There were apparently numerous incidents, as she mentions it happening at ages five, six, 12, 13, and 15 — “all by older men who I thought were safe.”

~ Michael Nordine


Helpfulness?

"Sarah Polley: ‘It took me years to see how responsible Terry Gilliam was for my terror’"| Autobiography and memoir | The Guardian

https://www.theguardian.com/books/2022/jun/12/sarah-polley-terry-gilliam-run-towards-danger-baron-munchausen-interview

"Peter Bogdanovich Talks Paper Moon With Spider-Man Director Jon Watts"| Movies | Empire

https://www.empireonline.com/movies/features/peter-bogdanovich-paper-moon-jon-watts-director-interview/

The Problem is Real.

"Like all abusive men, dictators seek to control who can speak and which narratives are believed. The only difference is scale"

~ Rebecca Solnit

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/feb/25/feminism-men-putin-trump-abusive-men-dictators

Sunday, March 19, 2023

These guys added a hum!!!!

"Reduce Stress & Help Sleep with 4-7-8 Breathing or Hum Method" - Bob & Brad - YouTube

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=LyABqNFTCDg&feature=youtu.be

Notice the positive pet food bank story?

 "‘A very dark time’: SNAP cuts leave Michigan families, food banks struggling" ⋆ Michigan Advance

https://michiganadvance.com/2023/03/19/a-very-dark-time-snap-cuts-leave-michigan-families-food-banks-struggling/

"Foodbanks given a boost to help Portsmouth pets" - Portsmouth City Council

https://www.portsmouth.gov.uk/2023/03/17/foodbanks-given-a-boost-to-help-portsmouth-pets/


Sort of just seems in line with the times & the breadlines

"Reaction formation may be a temporary coping mechanism, but it’s unproductive in the long run. It ignores underlying beliefs or challenges that need to be addressed, which can hurt mental health."

Saturday, March 18, 2023

What's to be learned from human self-interest?

"Women are more likely to challenge men on sexist comments than men are. Given the particular socialization of women under patriarchy, seemingly minor comments or incidents can leave women and gender non-conforming people feeling humiliated, angry, or upset; yet such comments are often dismissed as harmless. Women discussing sexism are often characterized as divisive or overreactive and women’s concerns are belittled unless validated by other men. This highlights disrespect for women’s voices in discussing their own oppression."

https://beautifultrouble.org/toolbox/tool/challenge-patriarchy-as-you-organize


Death is part of life.

Lord, it's like the Patriarchy wants you to feel crazy for knowing you deserve better. "See how much money and praise the toxic chauvinism will net you?" But unfortunately it's like the drugs that are making others temporarily high would kill you, so that's gonna be a deal-breaker.

Could be good to read, too.

"Book applies Indigenous wisdom to current crises" – Santa Cruz Sentinel

https://www.santacruzsentinel.com/2022/11/30/book-applies-indigenous-wisdom-to-current-crises

"We Are the Middle of Forever: Indigenous Voices from Turtle Island on the Changing Earth by Dahr Jamail" | Goodreads https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/60423701-we-are-the-middle-of-forever

What's that, Voice from Somewhere?

"I'm sorry, but you have got to treat yourself, and thereby others (including children and women and boys and girls and men) a lot better than what got role modeled for you. It's for you, too. It's for your own well-being. You deserve better, too. Honestly."

How to feed your needs?

"Particularly concerned are food bank representatives, whose organizations have already seen huge demand during the pandemic, and are themselves being squeezed by the food inflation that's affecting the people that food banks serve.

'There’s no way to overstate how devastating this is going to be,' Silva from the California Association of Food Banks told CalMatters. 'Families are going to see a dramatic and sudden drop in their food benefits at a time when food price inflation and the cost of living in California especially is through the roof.'

Mike Altfest, Alameda County Community Food Bank's director of community engagement, says that the loss in Alameda County alone will amount to more than 3 million meals in the county per month. 'Our food bank can't make up 3.1 million meals,' Altfest said. 'It's physically impossible.'

'We're going to see a huge jump in demand,' he said. 'And I think food banks across the country are going to struggle to make this up.'"

~ Carly Severn

Freeways Still Polluting More of Thy Neighbors Than Necessary?

"'They definitely are NOT entitled to degrade whoever they want to,' claims Patron Saint of The Not Sexist, Racist, Rich People."

A day to celebrate! Cats, women, medievalism, & more...

Kat Timpf on Twitter: "People forget that today is also the feast day of Saint Gertrude of Nivelles, patron saint of cats and those with mental illness." / Twitter

https://twitter.com/KatTimpf/status/1636757295123013635

"History of St. Gertrude: The Patron Saint of Cats"| Dr. Elsey's

https://www.drelseys.com/2022/03/10/history-of-st-gertrude-the-patron-saint-of-cats/

"Saint Gertrude of Nivelles: The Patron Saint of Cats (More or Less)"| Mental Floss

https://www.mentalfloss.com/article/93339/saint-gertrude-nivelles-patron-saint-cats-more-or-less

"Meet St. Gertrude, cat lady of the church" - U.S. Catholic

https://uscatholic.org/articles/202003/how-st-gertrude-of-nivelles-became-the-cat-lady-of-the-catholic-church/


What About Sheela Needs To Be Able To Afford Therapy To Get A Gig?

"Big vagina energy: the return of the sheela na gig"| International Women's Day | The Guardian

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2021/mar/08/big-vagina-energy-the-return-of-the-sheela-na-gig

PJ Harvey - "Sheela-Na-Gig" - YouTube

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Sjxr_No-yuY&list=PLVeac6nZ-9w4HOUJJb1ieBKEdENNhS2y-&index=5

#WOMENSART on Twitter: "'Sheela na gigs' are described as 'figurative carvings of naked women displaying their vulvas' dating back to before the 11thc. Found on buildings in Europe, especially in Ireland☘ and are said to keep evil spirits away. #WomensArt #StPatrickDay https://t.co/waw31pOGAH" / Twitter

https://twitter.com/womensart1/status/1636654886015082497

I do love how my cat thinks, though.

Even the garbage truck coming by is a special event!

Oh good, we have some eggs.

"Maybe she likes other kinds of humans just as much as she likes rich white dudes, but I just haven't seen evidence of that yet; however, that doesn't mean it won't happen before you die, ha-ha."

If only the spoiled cats cared more about others.

She woke me up SO early. Not thoughtful. WHAT WILL THE KIDS WHO CAN'T EAT BREAKFAST DO? O well. I will roast some potatoes for ME.

But at least some know more now...

"Maximillian Alvarez: Like you said, so many consumers don’t know (or don’t want to know) what workers like yourself go through to get their produce to the supermarket, to restaurants, etc. Can you say a little more about your own experience as a farmworker and what that work entails on a day-to-day basis? Who are the people primarily doing this kind of work? 

Lupe Gonzalo: They are migrant workers who come here to Immokalee from different countries, specifically from Guatemala, Mexico, Haiti, and several other countries. A normal day for us workers means waking up at 3:30 a.m. to begin your day and prepare some food to take to the fields. For me, as a mother, it meant getting my children ready at that early morning hour to take them to someone else, another woman. There is no school or daycare that opens before 8 a.m. Therefore, there are other people who take care of children. So, I would take them there and then go to work.

When you arrive at these farms, the only tool they give you is a bucket — a bucket that you have to fill with tomatoes. A bucket weighs about thirty-two pounds or more when it’s filled up to the brim. When they tell you to pile the fruit above the rim, though, it can weigh up to thirty pounds. We used to get paid fifty cents for each bucketful. We did not get paid by the hour, we were never guaranteed a minimum salary at the end of the week — we got paid for each bucketful that we harvested. So, in order to be able to make a decent income at the end of the week, one had to harvest between 100 and 150 buckets per day. But that always depends on the weather; it depends on how hot it is and also on the experience of the workers. Also, if you reported some abuse, or if you complained about the working conditions, the contractor would say, “Here’s the pay I’m offering, if you want it. Take it or leave it.” 

"Farmworkers in Florida Are Protesting Modern-Day Slavery"

https://jacobin.com/2023/03/farmworkers-immokalee-florida-ciw-slavery-abuse

And sadly, "they would just laugh at you or..." is still entirely too common of a response to such situations.

"And, as I mentioned before, sexual harassment is a problem that oftentimes affects women in the fields. When I was working there, there were contractors or coworkers who would touch you. Many times, when you would say, 'I don’t want you to touch me,' they would just laugh at you or simply ignore you, and continue doing these things." 

 ~ Lupe Gonzalo

"Farmworkers in Florida Are Protesting Modern-Day Slavery"

https://jacobin.com/2023/03/farmworkers-immokalee-florida-ciw-slavery-abuse

One can see how something like this is very painful for society to address.

"The horrors uncovered at Moreno’s operation — horrors that involved the enslavement, abuse, and exploitation of flesh-and-blood human beings right here, in the United States, all around us — are not some remnant of a grim, bygone past. They are a stark reminder of the dual realities that exist side by side across the landscape of American labor: one world where working people are at least recognized as human beings with the bare minimum of rights, and another world, a submerged world, where workers who are no less human are treated as cattle, or worse." 

~ Lupe Gonzalo

"Farmworkers in Florida Are Protesting Modern-Day Slavery"

https://jacobin.com/2023/03/farmworkers-immokalee-florida-ciw-slavery-abuse

Wednesday, March 15, 2023

No thank you, five stars notwithstanding.

"They tortured me and inflicted pain until I was feeling sick, and then when I tried to tell them that the experience was uncomfortable, they changed the story around to suit their mindsets, made many excuses, said my nervous system just wasn't used to it, and that it meant I should come back for more "to get used to it." All with many smiles.

They were uninterested in honesty or in providing a truly good service. They certainly weren't going to change anything if they could get away with not doing it.

And then later, a really big man told me that they didn't listen to him, either, when he told them it was too painful.

It was an okay dream.

I had a dream that an irresponsible and unwell abusive guy knew I didn't want to hang out with him, and he was bothered, and another girl who was with him told him to deal with it.

O WOW!

"What if our grandchildren are really, really different from us, and maybe even different from our kids? What if they feel less entitled to dehumanize others? What if they love the earth more?"

Me & A Big Guy Survived, Though.

Both of us had a very painful, physically torturous experience at the exact same establishment.

"See? And he was a really big guy, and he said it was really painful for him, too."

Never going back there again.

Why do they not find better recreational activities, at least?

"Their chauvinistic circle is still dehumanizing all the same types of human beings" was a very gross & demoralizing experience. 

"They'll change and be a lot more a lot honest in x amount of time." 

Great, I definitely hope knowing that is helpful???

WHO VALUES HONESTLY lately?

If the VERY select "still rewarded for being abusive jerks" FEW still want to feel entitled to degrade whoSOever they were trained to dehumanize, just so a shrinking portion of the population gets compensated with more expansive home decorating budgets, which of the most fortunate descendants will be able to "LET GO AND LET GOD," for the GOOD of the REST of humanity, eh?

Hey U.

Give us some beautiful good dreams, please.

What happened when I searched for "nature compassion"a little before 3 am?

"Exposure to hate speech deteriorates neurocognitive mechanisms of the ability to understand others’ pain" | Scientific Reports

https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-023-31146-1

That explains some things about certain people's choices.

"Our relationship with nature is of central importance in times of crisis, says researcher"

https://phys.org/news/2023-03-relationship-nature-central-importance-crisis.html

That, too.

I am going to simplify life.

Tend to your own aches instead of...that is, even if I do see....nevermind, it's simply a great time to focus on improving your health, remember???

Critical question.

How can humans be more funny and less misogynistic/ genocidal in the future?

Perplexing!

Increasingly interested in supplying more details as to how some learned that catering to abusive, controlling people is SO important when it comes to maintaining certain lifestyles?

Are any of the folks who were immensely insensitive evolving faster now, or...

"'She chose to have me - clearly - but she did so because she CHOSE to. Not because a law told her she HAD to. It should always be our choice,' Kayla Braxton wrote of her mother on Twitter."

~ Charmaine Patterson

"Kayla Braxton Says She's a 'Product of Rape'"
https://people.com/health/wwe-anchor-kayla-braxton-reveals-she-was-a-product-of-rape-as-she-defends-womens-right-to-choose/

"Opening up about her upbringing, the sportscaster said she was raised by an 'awesome' foster family and has 'a good relationship with my biological mom.'"

~ Charmaine Patterson

Tuesday, March 14, 2023

When they addressed a Society O' Coercive Control

When was it alright to say that reading a particular sarcastic tweet before re-watching Maid on Netflix is really hitting different this time?

The Onion on Twitter: "Dog Feels Like He Always Has To Be ‘On’ Around Family https://t.co/81mtAciLTg https://t.co/kAj1XK7Y5X" / Twitter

https://twitter.com/TheOnion/status/1635834475652292608

The Onion on Twitter: "Olive Oil In Skinny Bottle Obviously Better https://t.co/LLHmHKho0v https://t.co/cRTDbZ9BtS" / Twitter

https://twitter.com/TheOnion/status/1635755216292270088

The Onion on Twitter: "Police Arrest Woman Reporting Domestic Abuse For Being Tattletale https://t.co/qqCDPSeHy8 https://t.co/QRD2usnUsp" / Twitter

https://twitter.com/TheOnion/status/1635664634098196488

The Onion on Twitter: "Boss Wants Friendly, Relaxed Company Culture In Place By Friday https://t.co/iXQoohujw6 https://t.co/9JPa6KkyV5" / Twitter

https://twitter.com/TheOnion/status/1635801007912280066

It's raining in many lands...including this one...

Lyla June | "Reclaiming our Indigenous European roots" | by Leslee Goodman | Medium

https://moonmagazineeditor.medium.com/lyla-june-reclaiming-our-indigenous-european-roots-64685c7fc960

Lyla June - "All Nations Rise (Official Music Video)" - YouTube

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nr2VLI8jKww&feature=youtu.be

Lyla June - "Time Traveler (feat. Desirae Harp)" Official Music Video - YouTube

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ulK_GE9XjO8&feature=youtu.be

HOME | Lylajune

https://www.lylajune.com/

And there it rains, too.

"Temalpakh Farm – From the earth. For the people."

https://www.temalpakhfarm.com/

Desert X | Interview with Diana Campbell

https://desertx.org/dx/dx-23/interview-with-diana-campbell

"DC: Thinking about flows of resources and tenacity and storytelling, I have been very inspired by the work of Temalpakh Farm in Coachella. In a similar way that I am interested in water cycles, I am interested in how resources flow from the Augustine Tribe’s casino into an organic farm aimed to promote sustainable lifestyles in the Coachella Valley. Healthy eating can be prohibitively expensive, and I am moved by how this initiative has an educational remit to revive and activate indigenous farming technologies and knowledges found in food culture to nourish the community today. This is just one of the many initiatives in the desert that speaks to how creativity can open up new possibilities for more fulfilling ways of living."

"...the memory of water..."

"...does not forget water."

Desert X | DX 23 Coachella Valley

https://desertx.org/dx/dx-23

"Latinx Files: The other Coachella" - Los Angeles Times

https://www.latimes.com/world-nation/newsletter/2022-04-21/latinx-files-coachella-ufwupdates-farmworkers-grupo-firme-latinx-files

"Desert X Scatters Captivating Installations Across Coachella Valley" | Hypebeast

https://hypebeast.com/2023/3/desert-x-coachella-valley-installations-guide-news-info

"COACHELLA WALLS: THE ANONYMOUS FARM WORKER" — Google Arts & Culture

https://artsandculture.google.com/story/coachella-walls-the-anonymous-farm-worker-coachella-walls/HQWxB28wjx4A8A?hl=en

Coachella Valley Resident Amalia De Aztlan Named Woman Of The Year | Palm Desert, CA Patch

https://patch.com/california/palmdesert/coachella-valley-resident-amalia-de-aztlan-named-woman-year

"Activists Ask Coachella Festival Goers To Support Local Farmworkers" | LAist

https://laist.com/news/coachella-valley-farmworkers-want-festival-goers-to-invest-in-local-communities

"Mired in silence" | News

https://news.ucr.edu/articles/2022/12/22/mired-silence

Desert X | Interview with Diana Campbell

https://desertx.org/dx/dx-23/interview-with-diana-campbell

Who taught them it was okay to behave that way?

"'They made sure to take a moment that we would already never forget and heighten every negative emotion by 1000,' she said about the crowd of protestors — one of whom yelled, 'if you really loved your daughter, you wouldn't take her in there.'

'I'm embarrassed to say that in that moment, I broke. I turned and I yelled over my shoulder; 'It's not me, it's her!' ' said Lakshmi. "I've always deeply regretted that comment because I was, you know, I was just a girl and I didn't know then what I know now. I was feeling slut shamed. I didn't want them to think I was promiscuous. It was a white-hot, hot slash of internalized misogyny.'

The author said the truth was her mom was there on that day 'specifically because of her love for me.'"

~ M. Park & B. Livesay

"Padma Lakshmi Reveals How Car Crash Forced Her Mom to Have Abortion"

https://people.com/health/padma-lakshmi-car-crash-forced-mom-abortion-exclusive/


"Mind you"

"'Seeing so many other brave women share their stories got me thinking what my life would have been like if I had become pregnant and if I had to raise a baby during everything I was going through at the time,' Baldwin said. 'Mind you, I have medical resources, money and support that a lot of women do not have access to. It would've simply been traumatizing and impossible.'"

~ Jen Juneau

"Ireland Baldwin Reveals She Was Raped as a Teen, Shares Abortion Story"

https://people.com/health/ireland-baldwin-reveals-she-was-raped-as-a-teenager-abortion-story-roe-v-wade-overturned/

Now a new charity for the well-off to donate to has been born.

"Former Ms. South Carolina Forced to Carry Unviable Fetus for 7 Weeks: It 'Was Like a Dagger to the Heart'

Former Ms. South Carolina Jill Hartle is raising awareness of how abortion rights affect women dealing with fetal anomalies through the Ivy Grace Project"

https://people.com/health/woman-forced-to-carry-unviable-fetus-for-7-weeks/

And why?

"'I can't believe that my 13-year-old daughter has less rights in some states in this country than I did when I was her age,' Lakshmi added before stating that 'nobody has the right to dominion over another human body.'"

"Padma Lakshmi Reveals How Car Crash Forced Her Mom to Have Abortion" by M. Park & B. Livesay

https://people.com/health/padma-lakshmi-car-crash-forced-mom-abortion-exclusive/

Monday, March 13, 2023

17 🎶 17 🎶 17

The Beatles – "I Saw Her Standing There Lyrics" | Genius Lyrics

https://genius.com/The-beatles-i-saw-her-standing-there-lyrics

The Beatles – "Your Mother Should Know Lyrics" | Genius Lyrics

https://genius.com/The-beatles-your-mother-should-know-lyrics

Stevie Nicks – "Edge of Seventeen Lyrics" | Genius Lyrics

https://genius.com/Stevie-nicks-edge-of-seventeen-lyrics

Sherman Brothers – "Doll on a Music Box/Truly Scrumptious (Reprise) Lyrics" | Genius Lyrics

https://genius.com/Sherman-brothers-doll-on-a-music-box-truly-scrumptious-reprise-lyrics

ABBA – "Dancing Queen (Live) Lyrics" | Genius Lyrics

https://genius.com/Abba-dancing-queen-live-lyrics

Thanks to humans...

"5K Run Steps Forward for Missing, Murdered Native Women"

https://www.choctawnation.com/news/news-releases/5k-run-steps-forward-for-missing-murdered-native-women/

Breast cancer used to be not as talked about, too, but now almost everyone's either done so or donated to that cause.

How then, should it be improved, now?

"'We create this society; it comes from us,' said Hakimeh Zadeh of Northampton, who spoke softly about fleeing Iran 40 years ago while organizing against the Shah’s oppressive regime from afar, always running, always subject to arrest.

'2023 should be supported and amplified,' said Zadeh, contrasting the present with conditions in 1909, the year of the first Women’s Day march, with: 'A dog and a woman, they have the same status.'

“'Every five minutes 22 women get raped and killed,' she said. 'We don’t have to go to Iran — it’s here. There is a long line of women under torture, and they die.'”

~ Bob Flaherty

"'Women’s time has come’: CodePink’s International Women’s Day event features activists young and old"

Seventeen...

"Coachella Valley Resident Amalia De Aztlan Named Woman Of The Year"| Palm Desert, CA Patch

https://patch.com/california/palmdesert/coachella-valley-resident-amalia-de-aztlan-named-woman-year

A little bit of human nature.

I had a dream these two people on TV began arguing at each other and they were talking at the same time so you couldn't understand a word of what either one was saying.

"Jeremy Clarkson left ‘on his own’ after farm error enrages girlfriend Lisa: ‘Very cross'"| Celebrity News | Showbiz & TV | Express.co.uk

https://www.express.co.uk/celebrity-news/1706744/jeremy-clarkson-farm-girlfriend-lisa-hogan-very-cross/amp

Send certain parents to therapy to learn some better manners.

"Penny is still working on her manners!" - YouTube

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=vT7G0frK2lY&feature=youtu.be

"Schools in England warn of crisis of ‘heartbreaking’ rise in hungry children" | UK cost of living crisis | The Guardian

https://www.theguardian.com/business/2022/sep/25/schools-in-england-warn-of-crisis-of-heartbreaking-rise-in-hungry-children

"Afghanistan: 'I drug my hungry children to help them sleep'" - BBC News

https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-63733683

‘It’s hard to focus’: Schools say American kids are hungry | News, Sports, Jobs - The Express

https://www.lockhaven.com/news/local-news/2023/03/its-hard-to-focus-schools-say-american-kids-are-hungry/

"POORMAN'S MEALS | WHAT TO EAT WHEN YOU'RE BROKE"| EPISODE 2 - YouTube

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=uc1_Ubpxleo

GetItTogetherA.

"Ms Simpson said it was 'disgraceful' that one of the wealthiest countries in the world had an ongoing problem with hunger."

~ Patrick Begley

"Children are hiding their hunger to avoid burdening their parents, as food insecurity rises in Australia" - ABC News

https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-03-13/children-hiding-hunger-food-insecurity-single-parents-730/102078596

Sunday, March 12, 2023

Dear kid at the daycare whose name i don't remember

Well, since you were the first nice boy at a daycare who wanted to be friends with 6-year-old me, and since I felt like the babysitter wasn't so nice to you back then, I hope you're doing well. Are u still on the East Coast? I feel like telling you the tale of two siblings of our generation who got tested by the West Coast public school system for entry into the "gifted and talented" program. Coincidentally, the lighter one got in, and the browner one didn't. Decades later, the browner one was told that they had both scored high enough on the test to be allowed into that program! For years, he just thought he wasn't good enough to be accepted into it. But what actually happened was, the educators could only accept one. Perhaps there was an age factor, too. But still, why did they even bother testing both of them? Just feels not quite right to me, somehow. WHAT WERE THEY THINKING OR PERHAPS NOT THINKING ABOUT only the shadow knows...

Saturday, March 11, 2023

Also in the Seattle vicinity recently...

A fairy.

"my money mindset and spending habits while living simply (part 1)" - YouTube

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4KdqikuuGf0&feature=youtu.be

The Feasting Day is Coming

"47 Best St. Patrick's Day Foods" - Recipes for St. Patrick's Day

https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/holidays/g981/st-patricks-day-food/

“[My four-year-old daughter] Coco has really sensitive ears,” he says. “If I’m gonna bump my own music, I’m going to slap it. So, she’s not into it. We’ve had many fights in the car.”

~ B. Haggerty to B. MacNeal

"Macklemore Interview: New Album 'BEN', Relapse, Grammys Win"

https://www.esquire.com/entertainment/music/a43184170/macklemore-ben-album-interview/

"Best Colcannon Recipe"- How To Make Colcannon

https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/food-recipes/a35290706/easy-colcannon-recipe/

MACKLEMORE & RYAN LEWIS - THRIFT SHOP FEAT. WANZ (OFFICIAL VIDEO) - YouTube

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=QK8mJJJvaes&feature=youtu.be

"We Know How Lucky We’ve Been"

"A Tale of Two Mothers: Dying with Dignity and What Makes That Possible" - CODEPINK - Women for Peace

https://www.codepink.org/taleoftwomothers

"‘Women’s time has come’: CodePink’s International Women’s Day event features activists young and old"

https://www.gazettenet.com/CodePink-holds-International-Women-s-Day-event-50223478

Oh noooo...

"Meet Your Second Wife" - SNL - YouTube

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=MJEAGd1bQuc&feature=youtu.be

"I once admired Russell Brand. But his grim trajectory shows us where politics is heading" | Russell Brand | The Guardian

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/mar/10/russell-brand-politics-public-figures-responsibility

Caturday is here again.

"Geez, what's your issue" said one food driven creature to another.

https://youtube.com/shorts/ga1vlo4WRAU?feature=share

AT LEAST HUMANS CAN STILL EVOLVE

Why, Their Great Capitalist Who Is The Most Oppressed Patriarchal One Of All Mentality Didn't Much Nuture The Land or The Laborers or The Hungry, Did It?

With Tools

Heal Heal Heal Heal

Hurt Hurt Hurt Hurt

Cold Cold Cold Cold

Fools Fools Fools Fools

They know better on another level.

Yes.


How to survive a colorful dream

In which a woman with more Indigenous to America ancestry gave a very serious LOOK at end of it and you wake up with a feeling like a softball hit you right in the middle the chest but slowly & gradually that pain could dissolve away, please...


Somehow

How To Experience Heartbreak & Grief & Loss & Survive & & & . . . 

I know what's the most true.

I truly want to be a better and healthier person. Whole and true to myself. Others can progress at whatever pace they want to. "Let it go..."

~~~~~~

One example of societal messaging to let go of is stuff you get pressured into by authority figures at a young age. Such as this:

"In grade school, it seems like whenever teachers get the chance to, they create a group of monstrous idiots and plop one quiet girl into the center of it all to keep the boys 'under control.' This all-too-common dynamic can be observed in nearly every room in every public school across America, from science labs to gymnasiums."

~ Claire Geare

"SATIRE: Dick jokes, faux feminism and misogynistic men. Oh my!" - The Arizona State Press

https://www.statepress.com/article/2023/02/spmagazine-satire-film-bro-comedy-bro#

I think that being forced into that role is an  unhealthy dynamic...so now it is over....or it really should be. Let it go...

Friday, March 10, 2023

And why not?

manwhohasitall on Twitter: "Boys will be boys: kind, caring and thoughtful. Available in a T shirt, hoodie and jumper. FREE UK SHIPPING! Ends Midnight tonight. https://t.co/7pAvy9eGCt https://t.co/CCXWRy7Utt" / Twitter

https://twitter.com/manwhohasitall/status/1632497966421352448

"Tales of the Tricked"

 Ha-ha, henchmen of Cristobal Colon.

"That's a little intense, don't you think?"

Said the not white guy who worked at the copy center when I used a Pentagon Federal Credit Union card to buy required class materials in the 1990s. 

Yeah, I guess.

No, actually it's just a credit card. One that I got because of who my stepfather is.

There are other, more "empirical" experiences, on the other hand...

Okay, Yesterday.

Well, gosh...what if they just explained their "content with bigotry" ways in a little bit more appealing detail so that perhaps you wouldn't die of a lightning bolt or a heart attack if you simply adopted them? 

Because doesn't it just feel like you'd die if you imported that mindset?

Death really is what it seems like. 

Take this drug. We like it a lot. Now DIE!!! 

No? 

Now can I heal my mind and my calloused fingers???

Just think of all the Enlightened Grandchildren who will improve things thanks to the genius of CEO Claire.

manwhohasitall on Twitter: ""Shaking hands with a man is like shaking hands with a child. It seems artificial and vaguely patronizing. I prefer to pat them on the bottom." Claire, CEO" / Twitter

https://twitter.com/manwhohasitall/status/1633739609229107200

WHEN did "Getting loads of $ to disenfranchise vulnerable populations"

meet "Also didn't want to care about other creatures' habitats" and WHY?

Ah, the people who are feeding us.

"She wants to see more outreach and support from the USDA to farmworker women."

~ Marin Scotten

"‘Communities, Not Corporations’: Farmers March for Climate Action in D.C." - Modern Farmer

https://modernfarmer.com/2023/03/communities-not-corporations-farmers-march-for-climate-action-in-d-c/

"Wild." As in, DICKensianly SO?

"'It was wild to listen to adults argue in favor of eliminating a one-page form that helps the Department of Labor ensure young workers aren't being exploited,' the group Arkansas Advocates for Children and Families wrote about the law in a legislative session recap."

~ Kaitlyn Radde

"Arkansas Gov. Sanders signs a law that makes it easier to employ kids" : NPR

https://www.npr.org/2023/03/10/1162531885/arkansas-child-labor-law-under-16-years-old-sarah-huckabee-sanders

Pardon the ADD brain for getting distracted...

"Riverside Dickens Festival – 30 Years of Wit & Wisdom"

https://dickensfest.com/

Alas, the festivities were canceled due to the rain.

"U.S. Drought Monitor"

https://droughtmonitor.unl.edu/CurrentMap/StateDroughtMonitor.aspx?CA

There's a cool chart on there about how the drought is getting better.

There's more internet now than there was in the '90s...

"Bhangra in the Yukon, Canada | Bach's music through the Cello of Patrick Dexter from Mayo (Ireland)" - YouTube

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=wv-nk_9jtmY&feature=youtu.be

Cat happens.

 Oh-oh, gotta get up soon...