I mean, if there's still coldness and fear because of unhealed covert abuse / trauma...

It's possible to use it, utilize it somehow?

"Rümeysa Öztürk: I Saw the Horrors of ICE Detention Firsthand. It Is No Place For A Child"

https://www.aclu.org/news/immigrants-rights/rumeysa-ozturk-i-saw-the-horrors-of-ice-detention-firsthand-it-is-no-place-for-a-child