Why aren't they better yet? Perhaps it's time to stop looking at them so much.

Disenfranchised grief confuses some people. It does not meet their needs and expectations. Many adults are like needy children and some children are not that nice or perceptive when it comes to people who are different from themselves. But some are. But a lot of times, that's not what a wounded society wants more of, so that's why you're getting the ice cream cone fell on the sidewalk feeling, again. The cake dropped on the floor feeling, again. Holes in the clothes eliciting jeers instead of more empathy from others feeling, again. Cold hearts and small minds and sick silences have had their ways...