Anyways, finding people interesting is not the same as living like them.

Sometimes you're probably going to end up doing things totally opposite of how they were doing them. 

"Simone de Beauvoir's 'remarkable' letters to Violette Leduc"

https://www.theguardian.com/books/2020/dec/16/simone-de-beauvoir-remarkable-letters-to-violette-leduc-sold-at-auction

They might end up doing things totally opposite, too, if they reincarnated.