Monday, January 12, 2026

Do you think people need grieving rituals?

I mean, I think it could be a real thing that people need. Because in order to move on, they can't pretend anymore. Moving on means they will have to give up some of the lies they told themselves.

They told themselves that certain people and their family and friends and relatives had their best interest at heart, and it was not the truth. They had abusive, hurting people in their family and amongst their friends and relatives. 

Those people did not have their best interests at heart. 

That could be very sad to realize.

They were trained to just accept the abuse and pretend that that was love. And that it was good enough. It was not. It doesn't mean there was no love there, but it still was not healthy enough to be what they needed or what was best for them.

Parents who had daughters and chose sexism did not choose what was in their daughter's best interest. 

The Patriarchal Cult did not want them to value their daughters. To be honest, I don't think it even valued their sons, either.

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