And that's why toxic positivity just doesn't work well for everyone.

I'm sorry, I've suffered and felt oppressed by stupid patriarchal behavior patterns, but you know, I do try to be a little bit more honest about it than maybe the average person, who wants to pretend everything's fine when it's not, as a very selfish, coping mechanism to get by on, for now. And it's not helpful. Meanwhile, a whole bunch of people are being treated way worse. Right now. How is that going to magically just stop happening?