I actually think there's a lot of proof that treating girls and women badly is starting to fall out of favor.

You should start asking some of your friends what is weird in their brains that makes them want to dehumanize girls or treat women badly, and why it gives them pleasure to do it. 

Like, did they get praised for it a lot? Did they get closer to feeling acceptance from fathers or brothers or something? Or maybe even from patriarchal women and girls! Hmmm.

Did they get access to more money or property or houses if they acted that way???

It's just so weird, how some folks are still so addicted to repeating the same old patterns.