Anyways, back to reality!

I don't live with a guy who needs me to disrespect girls and women in order to feel better about himself, and he also didn't need me to change my last name to his. And when my nervous system was completely fried by the violence I experienced and I had to not work for over a year (and the greatest sin in a white supremacist capitalist society that you could possibly commit is taking off of work for a year, for these people, who you would think might have been raised by the ones who ran Auschwitz or something, as determined as they are to defend the values of the violent white men at the expense of everybody else) and even though we got into more debt, he was probably way better to me and much more tolerant of the situation than a lot of the wretched, greedy, selfish, brainwashed by patriarchal white supremacist values guys  I've met in my life would have been, if I had had to live with them.