What if you find some people with better values to hang out with and they also have money and property?

Can you not find the men with money and property who also  treat real human beings way, way, way better than you were trained treat them?! And maybe those people could be a good influence on you!! And then you'll turn into a nicer person again like you were when you were a little kid before you got SO warped by Societal Patriarchal White Supremacist Values.