Sorry, there really are just too many audiences. How can you think of them all? And yet

you don't even know who you're talking to sometimes and then you're like wait a second, was I talking to...

Anyways, have you considered inviting all of your most inflexible pals and taking trip to an orphanage where you get to know the children. And you really do it because you're curious and you want to get to know them. Not because you have to like, show it off, but you could show it off. It's not like it's terrible to show it off, but that's not your primary goal, right? 

Your primary goal is to be inquisitive and to learn and to grow and to become a fuller human being and to connect with others in a way that makes you happy.