Fortunately, I have met men and women who have raised the bar.

You should also start expecting the men in your life (as well as the women) to discriminate less against human beings and care more about health care for lots of different kinds of women and men, too.

Their nice life is also dependent on other people's ability to enjoy health and wellness. They should be better at acknowledging that, whatever values they learned from their society.

Do not expect the generations to come to benefit as much from swallowing the party line and going along with some heedlessly selfish ways of living. They are not going to get as rewarded for being jerks as much as some other people were. 

Those rewards, by the way, were, or seem more like temporary distractions than the actually good rewards that were also available.