What if your higher self is testing you to see if you can evolve a little more quickly??

What if your higher self is like, "It's okay with me if so and so, who on the surface had a very privileged life, but still carries quite a bit of unexamined baggage which gets in the way of even better opportunities, and an even more expanded worldview, and even more fun times, figures out how to evolve at a more rapid pace, as long as it doesn't harm them too much physically and emotionally. It's okay with me if you evolve more quickly. Why not give it a try? Good things could happen maybe?"