I got painfully sad about "socially acceptable" discrimination again.

Being insensitive to people with health challenges is not good for the babies, or the children, or the grown-ups. 

It's far too hurtful and oppressive to be good for any of them.

People who grew up with unhealthy patriarchal standards, who chose to go along with them just to fit in with others, were capable of being so much better to their fellow human beings.