I feel grateful to live with a good, nice, level, low-key man.

An unwell man in a dark parking lot muttered a misogynistic phrase from a rap song at the world in general and looked at me and did it again and it made me change my plans this evening and come home and know that I need more healing and so do other people, including people who make excuses for behaviors which traumatize others. I will just have to work on healing some stuff again this evening. Blessed be the skilled healers, and maybe I will be able learn more about such things very soon.