It would be nice if some people weren't trained to put the health of women and girls last.

That hierarchical belief system is not something they were born with, but it got ingrained in them in their formative years, and they don't seem to want to investigate it or question their own reflexes, and I feel allergic or even sometimes sickened when it feels like their addictions to those habits get to a certain poisonous level of stubborn refusal to change.