Vibes...sometimes...complicated...try not to let the patriarchal culture starve you...

"Why Women (Sometimes) Don't Help Other Women"

https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2016/06/queen-bee/488144/ 

"Why Do Women Bully Each Other at Work?"

 https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2017/09/the-queen-bee-in-the-corner-office/534213/ 

"The Problem With ‘Hey Guys’"

https://getpocket.com/explore/item/the-problem-with-hey-guys?utm_source=pocket-newtab