There are sad adults who are more immature than some children right now.

Grief at some grown patriarchal people's irresponsible choices.

They are incredibly addicted to acting like they expect others to be fine with a lack of sensitivity, dishonesty. and tolerance of violence.

They learned this from a culture which acts like people in certain bodies are much more entitled to indulge in harmful behaviors than others, without any apparent external consequences (and they don't even want to see what a disservice they've been doing to themselves.) 

Grief has happened, witnessing this.