"'Normal' in the early 20s"

"Dudes that make you say, 'Good lord, for so long, why did I...'"

"It's probably because the patriarchal culture taught you that being so accomodating to them is what's necessary, as well as 'nice.' Because there's a payoff for putting up with it if they're talented or had childhood trauma, or because everyone else is doing it, too, etcetra..."