Sometimes I wonder if a lot of women don't know what that's like?

I live with a man who does not act like he expects me to put him on a pedestal above women or care about his well-being as a man more than I care about the welfare of women. Interesting, because I know a lot of patriarchal cultures train men and women to do that. But sometimes, that training doesn't "take." Good, because it's not healthy. Unfortunately, though, sometimes it does "take," and I think that's a huge contributing factor as to why women's rights are under attack by patriarchal people in this country right now.