Being abusive is an illness and the patriarchy did that

"Bicycles multiply in Kabul as economy unravels but women cyclists are missing" : Goats and Soda : NPR

https://www.npr.org/sections/goatsandsoda/2022/09/29/1125441090/bikes-are-everywhere-in-kabul-since-the-taliban-takeover-but-whos-not-cycling-wo