People who act like they got sucked into

"The patriarchal, white supremacist model of success" are just not very healthy influences for some us at this time, because... 

"It vilifies and oppresses anyone who doesn’t live up to the (poorly defined and ever-changing) ideal, regardless of their circumstances."

~ D. Miranda       

"What Is Budget Culture? How This Sneaky Paradigm Hurts Everyone" https://www.healthyrich.co/blog/what-is-budget-culture#:~:text=%F0%9F%A5%91%20Budget%20culture%3A%20a%20damaging,fantastical%20ideal%20of%20financial%20wellness.