You care!

"But of course care is an antidote to the violence and harms of patriarchy."

 ~ Phillip Agnew and Marcus Littles

"Dismantling the Patriarchy Inside of Us - Non Profit News" | Nonprofit Quarterly

https://nonprofitquarterly.org/dismantling-the-patriarchy-inside-of-us/

You care! FOR EXAMPLE about teenagers who pick your salads and you care about your boss...you care about good nutrition....you just weren't taught by the patriarchy to express yourselves about it.  

Your higher self cares.