How hard is it for the privileged to do so?

To welcome relief for others from oppression?

So apparently there are men and women who consistently act as if they just don't care about other people getting adequate healthcare. Being "Irresponsible-to-Others" is second nature to them...Why???? 

Is it because they were given A Very Patriarchal Script to follow?

And since they themselves followed The Script and happily ignored the people with health issues or poverty challenges, and had their own children,  and put people with money on pedestals...or got rewarded for their Very Patriarchal Behavior Patterns...

They are still just absolutely fine with being the great male and female allies of the Uncaring Patriarchy?

Apparently?

They just find it Easier to Be That Way?

Addicted to never taking any responsibility, and to making excuses for predators just as long as they are also people with money who fit a certain masculine model. Are they so blind to their own cruelty, including that it might be unhealthy even to those who are close to them?

Or are they still just too immature to face up to it?

Are their choices toxic not only for those who are less privileged, but even to those who are close to them and deemed the most privileged in their society?