Change seems very slow with some

The icecream didn't change much. It is very tiring to repeat oneself. 

It is like running into a dead end, a wall of stubbornness. People communicate that they do not want change to happen all that badly, because the current system is good enough for them.

Women who make excuses for men behaving badly are not doing it because they cry at night about poorer women getting assaulted in the fields so they can eat fruit salads. They are doing what the patriarchy trained them to do.

And yet, what if some people really do not know what they do? Should you try to talk to them? Or is it that they just don't care? The second possibility seems all too likely, sometimes.

In 2021, wishing life hadn't taught some of us that "nice" people are trained to make excuses for social practices that to lead to a lot of people being treated poorly, which is really only "nice" for...who is that "nice" for exactly?

Patriarchal behavior patterns keep ruining things that could have been good.

Vibes...That "these are the people who would have to literally see someone get run over by a bus in front of them to develop the necessary level of sensitivity" vibe? That was not a joyous or fun feeling.

The wall of stubbornness said "here's where something good could've been started....psych."

This is why it's at least nice to remember children and grandchildren can be their own people, and not necessarily repeat old patterns.