Sometimes society makes it easy

to feel the effects of literacy and how it can help you learn new things. 

"Become a Stupenda-Dependa - here's 35 ways! | Military Spouse"

https://www.militaryspouse.com/spouse-101/35-ways-to-be-a-stupenda-dependa/

AND

"Meet the 'Dependa': An ugly meme — and sexist stereotype — used to slur military spouses"

https://www.salon.com/2017/05/15/meet-the-dependa-an-ugly-meme-and-sexist-stereotype-used-to-slur-military-spouses/