Ever notice this?

After a change in status, still so much OLD - FASHIONED wording in business correspondence in 2021.

XY:  "The rep was nice but the company is sexist."

XX: "Yeah, I'm adding you. Why did they write me to say you're adding me?"

Sometimes written correspondence falls short. 

XY: "Why does my name have Mr. next to it."

XX: "You're a man! They don't want you to feel demeaned. And unmanly."